Spirit-Led Birth

Thoughts On 1 Cor. 3:8

2011-09-05T11:26:00.000-07:00

Now he that planteth and he that watereth are one: and every man shall receive his own reward according to his own labour. 1 Cor. 3:8

This reminds me that childbirth is designed to unify a couple. Together they work with God to bring forth a child. The man plants the seed, the woman nurtures it in her womb. This continues through labor and birth where they work together in their own way to bring forth the child.

Per God's design, in the post-partum phase, the mother continues to nurture the child and the father must assume the role of provider. The woman becomes dependent upon the man's provisions as her main objective is not to participate in earning income, but rather to focus her energy on nurturing and nourishing the child for the first two years of life, ideally.

This concept is difficult to accept for many couples. Some women value their independence and may not want to give up their income and freedom. Men may not want the responsibility of being the sole provider. There may be a power struggle.

Recently an expectant co-worker told me that she wouldn't feel like she was doing her fair share if she were a stay-at-home mom and that the father of her child would feel the same way. She also expressed concern over his ability to provide for them, even though he had a good paying job, because of his spending habits.

Couples in Christ must recognize the benefits of God's plan. The two must learn to trust each other, have faith in God and accept their knew roles. They can learn from Christ's example of submission to the will of the Father, both understanding there are times and seasons for everything under the sun.

God's design is beautiful and purposeful and we are rewarded according to our own work.

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Study Natural Childbirth Techniques Even If You Want An Epidural

2011-06-17T23:53:00.000-07:00

I would like to help all pregnant women have better births. I know it is possible to give birth naturally without experiencing overwhelming pain. I'd like to share the knowledge I have gained after 18 years of studying childbirth and bearing 7 children with those women that I come in contact with IRL (in real life,) but I have found that most of the women I meet don't care to accept my offers. Instead they are content with planning a medicated birth or without preparing for childbirth at all.

Apparently, this is a new trend. A recent study published in the Journal of Obstetrics showed that increasingly women are foregoing childbirth classes and allowing their practitioner to make their decisions for them. Unsurprisingly, women who use a midwife are more apt to be informed about their options and the pro's and con's of birth practices.

Equally as unsettling as expectant women not studying childbirth for themselves, is that young obstetricians are more apt to prefer epidurals and c-sections than older doctors. If women don't study for themselves and they let the doctor have the reins they are setting themselves up for difficult experiences.

I have seen first hand the apathy that many women have toward childbirth study and planning on an epidural without knowing the risks.

For example, I asked a young woman who frequents the store I work at if she was planning a natural birth. She informed me that she was definitely planning on getting an epidural. I told her I was a mother of 7 and had given birth naturally and that I could teach her methods for dealing with the pain naturally. She declined.

The same story played out with another young woman. This woman was two weeks from her due date and I asked about her childbirth studies. She said she hadn't taken any childbirth class nor read anything about birth.

I pointed out that people have to study to drive a car, be shown how to use a microwave, and learn from a coach how to play baseball and childbirth isn't any different. She didn't budge: She was satisfied with her boyfriend's sister telling her what to expect.

A couple of months after my conversation with the first young woman I mentioned above, her boyfriend informed me that they had had their baby. I was very happy for them and after congratulating him I asked if she'd gotten through the birth without a c-section. He informed me that yes, she had. He then said, "The only thing is that she wasn't able to get the epidural when she wanted it, cause they made her wait, so she felt it all the whole time until the very end."

This is a perfect example of why women who are planning on getting an epidural should also study natural childbirth techniques. There are many reasons, besides waiting for either a woman to dilate to a certain point, or waiting for the anesthesiologist to arrive, that an epidural may not take the pain away.

Here are some helpful links that provide information on why expectant women should study natural childbirth even if they plan on an epidural.

5 Reasons to Learn Natural Childbirth Techniques by Jennifer Vanderlaan (Birthing Naturally.)
Discover Natural Alternatives To Epidurals a blogtalkradio interview conducted by Pastor Carla with a midwife.
Natural Birth vs. Medicated Birth by Brenda Lane mother and doula.

MamaBaig's Original Gossip Quotes Facebook Page

2011-05-21T06:11:00.000-07:00

This new FB page I created has nothing to do with childbirth, but we've all dealt with gossip. Either we've been gossiped about or gossiped about other people. The MamaBaig's Original Gossip Quotes Facebook Page houses quotes about gossip penned by Susana Fierro-Baig.

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Recent MamaBaig On The Air Episodes

2011-05-03T08:13:00.000-07:00

I have had several exciting conversation on my blogtalkradio show, MamaBaig On The Air, recently that you may enjoy.

A VBAC After Placental Abruption & Vertical Scar
Bronwyn, an LDS mother of 4 children, converses with host, Susan Fierro-Baig, about the placental abruption she experienced during her third pregnancy, the emergency cesarean section that followed, the emotional trauma that ensued, and how she overcame the trauma through the Atonement of Jesus Christ.

Bronwyn also shares her victory over the vertical scar which makes a VBAC even more challenging and her son's miraculous recovery after being born premature at 26 weeks.

Read this post, Thoughts On Adversity & Expectations, (written 3 years ago on Spirit-Led Birth,) related to Bronwyn's experience.

Having A Supernatural Birth Experience
Host, Susan Fierro-Baig, discusses with Carrie, mother of 4 children, (3 living and one angel,) her birth experiences, the loss of her infant daughter, the impending birth of her son, and how her faith in Christ has impacted her journey.

A Born Again Doula
Doula, Shanon Purden, shares her call of being a Certifeid Birth Doula and a childbirth eduction advocate. She is a Born Again Christian, a mother of 2 children, and a Navy wife.

From Hospital To Unassisted Homebirth
An LDS couple share why, after two hospital births, they decided to birth thier next two children at home without medical assistance. They discuss how thier faith in the Lord impacted thier births.

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My Discussion With A Direct Entry Midwife From PA

2011-05-03T08:03:00.000-07:00

Today I conversed with a D.E.M. on my blogtalkradio show, MamaBaig On The Air.

Jennifer McFarland is a Direct Entry Midwife, Certified Labor Doula, Certified Happiest Baby on the Block Instructor, Medical Assistant, Monitrice, Breastfeeding Supporter, and Certified Childbirth Educator (CIBI Imagery Birthing.) She provides prenatal care and facilitates homebirth and waterbirth for her clients in Northeastern Pennsylvania. Visit her website mybirthbydesign.com

Jennifer believes that birth is a very personal and spiritual experience, and respects the body's wisdom to do what it knows best. She happily serves women from all walks of life and in many different belief systems.

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Advice For Achieving A Natural Birth

2011-04-29T00:37:00.000-07:00

I want to address this question: What words of advice/wisdom would you give a woman considering a natural birth?

1) View natural childbirth videos, study the risks associated with epidurals and cesareans.

2) As for pain in childbirth, I will share with you my beliefs. I consider it hard work and powerful. My two hospital births were overwhelmingly painful. I cried, wailed and was so afraid. But my five home births were NOT! I actually enjoyed them ALL!

The decision of location of birth and birth attendant is key to a natural birth and it is a decision that should be made after studying natural childbirth, home birth, Christ-centered childbirth (and even unassisted birth) then by pondering and praying. Let God direct you.
3) Study vertical birth. With my first home birth, when hard labor had begun, I thought, "Well, I guess I should lie down in bed." (Because that is what we all have been taught.) Well, I lied down and that REALLY hurt. So I got out of bed and that was the last time during that birth and all of my next 4 births that I ever lay down!!! Instead I spent my labors standing, swaying, kneeling and sitting (in the tub or on sheets on the floor, against the couch.)

3) Study vocalizing (not crying or screaming or saying negative things. But moaning, saying positive things.) This birth tool is amazingly helpful!!!

4) Use water.... hot bath, shower, hot towels on your lower back and perineum.

5) Use counter pressure. My husband applied counter pressure on my lower back/butt during 6 of my births. I don't walk during labor, I like to lean over the sink, or bed (while resting on a pillow, towel etc..) and sway my hips, (or get down on hands & knees,) and vocalize. Then my husband applies counter pressure. He is cued when my vocalizing begins.

6) Study what the Bible says about Natural Childbirth. Apply your faith in God to childbearing. Believe that God created you to give birth and that faith in Jesus Christ overcomes fear which hinders labor and increases pain in birth. What we think we create! Study childbirth related scripture. The Bible is the best childbirth book!

7) Learn about releasing instead of pushing during labor. During birth I really try to go inward and think about releasing and trusting and listening and praying. I believe that Jesus Christ set the example for us when he said, "Not my will, but thine be done." To me this means that we are to not to try to control our birth, but rather release to it. When we do this, by faith, we do not fight our body, we work with it!

8) Limit bystanders at the birth. Realize that privacy is vital! During my home births, not having strangers watching me during labor & delivery, no wires connected to me and someone's hand up inside me checking me every so often transformed my births. I was free to make noise, move as I wanted, and focus inward without distraction. Try to accomplish this as much as possible in the hospital.

9) Last but not least, study fathers at birth. Invite your husband to be an integral part of your birth! Men want to be their wife's knight in shining armor. They don't want to see their wife suffer in birth! They are uncomfortable being mere bystanders. If they are uneducated, have no knowledge of how to help their wife, no "tools" for birth, they will demand their wife be given something, anything to take away the pain! But with most men, if they are informed, and taught how to assist their laboring wife, they will rise to the occasion and be rock that she needs him to be during her most powerful, yet vulnerable, moments.

Recommended Christian Childbirth Books

2011-04-28T11:46:00.000-07:00

Amazon.com Widgets

Not available on Amazon:

Born in Zion, Carol Balizet

Birth and the Dialogue of Love, Marilyn Moran

Choices in Childbirth: A Discerning Childbirth Guidebook for Christian Parents in the Making ( I was fortunate enough to be sent the original copy of A Discerning Childbirth by Pauline Dillard, many years ago. She also sent me a copy of one of her novels. I look forward to the new version of her book being completed.)

Recommended Books For Unassisted Birth

2011-04-28T11:33:00.000-07:00

Amazon.com Widgets

Not available through Amazon:

Emergency Childbirth: Gregory White

Recommended Books For Homebirth

2011-04-28T11:16:00.001-07:00

Amazon.com Widgets

Recommended Natural Childbirth Books

2011-04-28T10:44:00.000-07:00

Amazon.com Widgets

Unhindered Birthing Outside

2011-04-26T07:37:00.000-07:00

When preparing for my last 5 births I spent time pondering and day dreaming about the delivery. I liked to envision myself giving birth on the beach, with the ocean waves lapping in the background. I love the ocean. I grew up by it and as a child I even lived on the beach in a trailer park for a while and had the best time! The ocean is such a part of me that I was baptized in the Pacific ocean.

I remember dreaming often of renting an island during one of my pregnancies. My kids and I were indulging in some junk food from McDonalds once at a time when they had their Monopoly game running. One of the kids asked what I would do if I won a million dollars. I answered that I would rent an island for us to stay on for the rest of my pregnancy and then I'd give birth on the beach.

I was baptized in the ocean during November and I froze! Since all my babies are born in the winter I would never have birthed outside! I detest being cold! But had I had summer babies, wow, I just might have as I love nature and being in the buff outdoors. There is just something amazing about being one with nature, in privacy of course. I love to bathe outdoors and I once had a bathtub outside for that purpose! In my younger days, while visiting Yosemite, in the midst of that heavenly place, I felt the urge to run nude as the natives once did.

I guess I am not the only one who feels that call to the wild. Watch this incredible video of a birth conducted outside!

This video testifies that women can catch their own babies, that natural birth is possible, that God created a beautiful system that works unhindered, that women needn't suffer during unmedicated birth, that they don't need to be told to PUSH during birth, that vertical birth works with the process, that babies know how to be born and breathe, that women can be the victors of birth not the victims, and that we need not be all paranoid about germs during birth!

Of course, sanitation is important and I wonder why the couple didn't have a drop cloth or moss bed in place for the baby to land on like was done by many Native Americans. But we modern folks can take the need for sanitary conditions to the extreme. Germs are one reason that home births are frowned upon. When my first child was born in the hospital my little sisters were only allowed to view my baby through the nursery window! Hospital germs are more dangerous to babies than germs from their own families or their own homes.

Enjoy this video... I did!

The Fleeting Years Of Motherhood

2011-04-11T22:39:00.000-07:00

I am the mother of seven children all born roughly two years apart. I have enjoyed a succession of babies one after another for the past 18 years. As one child moved onto to toddlerhood a new, precious, baby filled my arms and my heart.

With so many children I have not always enjoyed motherhood. It can be so stressful. I recall once, while I tried to corral my herd through a checkout line, an elder woman stood gazing at my family. I was stressed and quite surprised when she said to me, "I would trade you in a heartbeat." My response was, "You mean you would go back to this torture!?!?" She was emphatic that, yes, she would go back. I thought to myself, "WHY? Those are the years to do all the things that you couldn't do when you were so busy raising kids."

Then our eldest child turned 17 last year. She rebelled, decided to get engaged and move out. She didn't speak to us for a few weeks because we had gotten angry and were not supportive of her decisions. We were gut wrenched. I missed her terribly, beyond words.

It hit me like a brick wall that even though the kids drove me nuts regularly, I wasn't prepared for them to grow up. What a dichotomy. I remembered my daughter when she was just a baby and I had held her for hours caressing her and cooing at her and now she was gone.

Because a new baby had always come I never had a chance to yearn for another wee one. Now our youngest is three and although we are mentally, physically, and financially done having babies, I am saddened by the thought of no more babies.

They have brought me so much joy these past 18 years. I can't believe how fast the time has gone by. Now, I am already finding myself wanting to trade the season that I am in with some young mother.

This photo of a migrant farmworker holding her baby epitomizes for me the wonderful bond that a mother shares with her child. The deep, soulful love that emanates between them is God-given love. I am so glad to have experienced this so many times. Thank you God, for blessing me so abundantly! I treasure those memories and feelings.

These are the lyrics of a song that I made up to sing to my babes.

Sweet, sweet, baby of mine

Hush precious baby

There's no need to whine

You're precious, so precious

Such a precious gift from God above

Given for me and your sweet daddy to love

Baby, my baby

You are God's miracle, Life's pinnacle
Baby, my baby

You're precious, so much more precious
Than a soft sea breeze

Autumn leaves leaves on the trees,

A waterfall,

A birds love call

A horse on the run or a setting sun

Baby, my baby

You're precious

So precious, Baby

Birth, Marriage & Forgiveness

2011-04-10T23:42:00.000-07:00

In genesis man and woman were told to "cleave to one another and multiply and replenish the earth." I don't believe this commandment was given merely for us to populate our world. I think we are supposed to bear children because it is a way for us to grow individually and as a couple.

Due to the nature of birth, there is a great requirement for LOVE. Love casts out fear. Fear is not of God. Not only does our quality of love during pregnancy help us to have better births, because it allows us to be conduits of love which overcomes fear, (which in fact causes pain,) it also gives our child a better womb atmosphere. This is what I refer to as "spiritual prenatal care."

Dr. Verny, in the book, Secret Life of the Unborn Child, presents how a woman's emotions can adversely affect her in utero child, especially if her negative emotions are toward her husband.

Because there is always opposition here on earth, the amazing heights of love we can achieve during pregnancy and birth are hindered by stress, anger and resentment. Pregnancy, a time of heightened spiritual and emotional awakening for many women, is also a time of heightened stress for many reasons. Some of those are finances, childbirth decisions, fear of birth, and physical changes.

Often expectant women find themselves frustrated with their husbands. The great demands she faces may cause her to have greater needs or expectations toward her husband that he may not be fulfilling. Because of this many marriages are compromised during pregnancy.

Studies have shown that domestic violence often increases during pregnancy. This is a symptom of the stress that expectant couples face.

It is my belief that the main way we are able to overcome marital conflict is by practicing forgiveness, which allows compromise. When we can learn to forgive our husbands for their weaknesses, for not meeting our expectations or desires, then we are able to regain or focus on our love for them.

The blessing we receive from this is that our unborn child's nervous system is healthier and our births can be more peaceful because we will be better able to work in harmony with our spouse and our body.

Listen to Lynn Greisemer, author of Your Body, Your Birth, and Susana Fierro-Baig discuss this topic on MamaBaig On The Air by clicking this button.

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Biblical Inspiration For Pregnancy & Birth: A New Show By Susan Fierro-Baig

2011-04-01T23:05:00.000-07:00

Biblical Inspiration For Pregnancy & Birth is a 10 minute long show. The purpose of this program is to inspire expectant women and couples through God's word and insights from host, Susan Fierro-Baig. Susan, aka MamaBaig, is the mother of 7 children.

Music played on the program is by Jonathan Lee, from his cd, A Thousand Moods. Enjoy My Song or A Thousand Moods, peaceful and inspiring piano music, used with permission.

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A Natural Water Birth Video In A Birth Center

2011-03-30T23:09:00.000-07:00

What I like most about this video is the parent's reactions upon meeting their newborn. It is amazing to witness the love that God instilled in us for our children. Praise God for motherhood and fatherhood, for families and babies. Lovely babies.

A sweet video!

New Freebirth Blog

2011-03-25T22:34:00.000-07:00

Jenny Hatch has established a new blog! Kudos to her for all her hard work! If you're interested in unassisted birth you'll want to listen to the podcasts on her site.

http://freebirthstories.blogspot.com

MamaBaig On The Air: Breastfeeding Mother of Three

2011-03-25T21:56:00.000-07:00

Susana Fierro-Baig converses with her guest, Jennifer, a Louisiana native, about her decisions to breastfeed, babywear, and birth naturally in the hospital.

Although employed over 20 hours a week, due to Jennifer's dedication, she expressed her milk and nursed each of her children beyond 12 months. Despite living in an area were extended breastfeeding, baby-wearing and natural childbirth are rare, Jennifer's determination has allowed her to parent according to her desires.

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Affording Kids- MamaBaig On The Air

2011-03-15T05:50:00.000-07:00

Susan Fierro-Baig, host of the MamaBaig On The Air blogtalkradio show, challenges the notion that if you can't afford kids you shouldn't have them. She converses with Cindy, mother of 11, about the sacrifices she and her husband made in order to raise their large family.

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MamaBaig Converses With Guest Sandra Bierman

2011-03-13T07:17:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, I conversed On The Air with my favorite artist, Sandra Bierman. I put together this video montage for your enjoyment.

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My BlogTalk Radio Interview with Rebecca, Homebirth Mother

2011-03-05T07:51:00.000-08:00

I just finished my first half hour radio show! Despite some initial technical difficulties, the show turned out great! If you enjoy the show please "Like" the "MamaBaig On The Air" Facebook page and you'll be alerted of future shows. Or you can click the "Follow" button on the blogtalkradio page.

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I was emailed this review from a listener:

I just listened to your first show and other than the technical difficulty at first I thought it went very smoothly. I really enjoyed your interview and loved her attitude. She talked about how much it meant to her to have home births but was very positive toward those who had theirs in the hospital. I thought it was a warm discussion between the two of you that really helped a listener know what a home birth is like.

I had expected more of a discussion on why you "should" have your baby at home and instead it was her very human story of her births.

Homebirth After Emergency C-section

2011-02-28T21:52:00.000-08:00

The following video is of the homebirth of a woman named Rebecca. It is a lovely video that captures the beauty of pregnancy, homebirth, and large families. The most inspiring thing about this homebirth is the fact that it occurred following an emergency c-section due to complete placenta previa.

Watch the video below and also read Rebecca's interview where she discusses why she chose homebirth, overcoming fear, support after cesarean, her involvement with the Normalizing Birth Project and more.

Henry's Birth from Steven James on Vimeo.

Memories Of Susana's Unassisted Birth By Dee

2011-02-26T00:26:00.001-08:00

In February, 2008, I had been in contact with Susana about her impending birth, she had mentioned that she may ask for me to attend. Any birth that I witness I consider a great privilege and honor.

In the wee hours of the morning Susana called and asked if I could come, we spoke about the timing and intensity of her contractions, she was very calm and detailed, I figured she had at least 4 more hours to go.

I immediately left to drive the 30 min to her house. When I arrived I met Robert for the first time, he was quietly arranging things for Susana's comfort and spoke with such gentle voices and calm demeanor I felt like he did not need my assistance. I spoke with Susana while she was in the tub, she at this point had already started moaning and yawing through her waves. Within 15 minutes of my arrival she was ready to push.

She was in control and spoke briefly in between contractions. I felt the need to encourage her onto her hands and knees, when I spoke she told me to hush.

She labored onto her hands and knees, and baby immediately crowned face first. After another push (possibly two?) Baby Boy was gently born into his Father's hands.

When Susana felt ready, we wrapped baby in blankets and she cleaned up and transferred to her bed. The placenta had not detached and with gently pushing and adjusting her position, she had no luck in getting the placenta out.

I was worried about infection, and I was inexperienced in how long to wait for a placenta to deliver without harm to mother. Cord had stopped pulsing for at least an hour and we felt she would be more comfortable if the cord was cut. Robert cut the cord and we diapered baby and wrapped him up . Everyone was so gentle and kind, When Robert woke the kids and told them their new brother had arrived he was such a gentle father, so loving and kind to all of his family, you could tell he was so proud to be a pappa!

After another hour we decided to transport Susana to the Trenton Hospital where they could help in delivering the placenta. We wrapped Susana up to stay warm and I drove her to the hospital. I knew then the reason I was needed, NOT to attend a birth, but to be a support to her in going to the hospital. The Dr. on staff was surprisingly neutral to her need. he did not make any derogatory comment that I remember, other than the hospital was not allowed to give her the placenta to take home .

She was able to argue that it was her organ and she had the right to take it home (to which she did.)

The confidence and peaceful environment were so impressive to me, the family was wonderfully supportive and I was impressed with how lovingly Susana's baby entered into his family.

Dee, friend, and witness of miracles.

Breastfeeding Photos of Willow

2011-02-24T02:22:00.000-08:00

These beautiful photos are of baby Willow, cuddled in yarn, adorned with a butterfly, enjoying mother's milk, adored by big brothers, and safely in daddy's hands. You can view a larger selection of Willow's photos by watching the video montage below.

I created the mosaic and video montage with photos courtesy of Tie-Dyed Doula. If you would like me to create a mosaic or montage for you (to be shared on Spirit-Led Birth) I would be happy to. Contact mamabaig at yahoo.com

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Clearing A Newborn's Airway

2011-02-23T07:49:00.000-08:00

Often babies are born with mucous clogging their mouth and airway. This hinders their breathing. A bulb syringe can be used to clear the passage. A bulb syringe is not the only way to clear the passages though. The method of "suck and spit" does the job, too. The following video beautifully exemplifies this.

Routine suctioning of babies is not necessary, or beneficial, however. California Midwife Ronnie Falcao writes the following on her Neonatal Resuscitation page:

I just wipe the baby off. And if you put her/him head down you can SEE the junk run out of his/her nose and mouth -- the natural mechanism is for the baby to drain and "spit" and THEN breathe, so i want to encourage it to happen that way.... (I "suspect" that suctioning -with a bulb- might make a baby try to breathe before it's cleared)....

How do I know whether to suction? The sign I use is real simple -- I gently touch the baby when just the head is out. If he purses his lips and looks like he's "trying to spit: then I figure all the reflexes are there and I'm not going to need to suction....

I finally figured out that suctioning and stimulation are great first steps in a baby who is a slow starter, but that a baby who clearly getting it together on his or her own doesn't need me to suction.... the baby seems to be quite capable of dealing with secretions on its own, and thus the suctioning is being done to make me feel better rather than because it is necessary. Now I wait, unless meconium is present. Then I suction on the perineum and afterwards, of course. But this in not the normal scenario.

From Henci Goer:

Routine suctioning is worse than useless; it's harmful. Evidence suggests that suctioned babies take longer to achieve normal oxygenation levels. Linda Smith has written about the adverse effects of suctioning on initiating breastfeeding. Suctioning c-sectioned babies isn't even logical. The problem is fluid in their lungs. Suctioning the nasopharynx isn't going to do a thing about that. Finally, it is now believed that meconium aspiration results largely from events occurring in pregnancy. Thanks to randomized controlled trials of suctioning for meconium, the sole remaining accepted indication is meconium staining and a nonvigorous baby--

Also from Ronnie Falcao:

Other important aspects to helping a baby breathe are:

head extended with a straight neck so the airway is free (the tray provides a good surface for this if needed)
mucus/meconium out of the airways
head draining on mom's belly if needed after breathing established. Nursing helps bring up mucus as does crying.
keep the baby warm and dry by changing blankets.
homeopathics can help with resuscitation if you think of it. Carbo veg for a blue baby (also fetal distress-not enough oxygen via the placenta. Aconite for fear or fright, with a white baby, traumatic delivery. Laurocerasus for wet lungs, face blue, difficult breathing.

Spirit-Led Childbearing Now on Facebook!

2011-02-22T10:17:00.000-08:00

I have just started a new Facebook page: Spirit-Led Childbearing. This fb page will encompass issues of pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, motherhood, and emergency childbirth.

I hope you will "Like" the page and that it will be one more method to help inspire women to apply their faith to childbearing.

Spirit-Led Birth: Top 50 Natural Childbirth Blog

2011-02-18T08:42:00.000-08:00

In 2009 Spirit-Led Birth was listed as a Top 50 Natural Childbirth blog by OnlineRadiologyTechnicianSchools.com. Now, in 2011 it has also been listed by Midwifeusa.com as one of The Best Natural Birth Information Blogs and by SonogramTechnician.org as one of 80 Best Natural Birthing Blogs.

Spirit-Led Birth was begun in 2008 with this purpose:

"I believe that if most couples were to study the full spectrum of childbirth choices, then ponder and pray to know how God would have them birth, more people would birth through a more autonomous fashion and with greater self-responsibility than is the norm.

In regards to delivery, we must choose between an OB hospital birth, Certified Nurse Midwife attended birth, CNM attended at a birth center, lay-midwife homebirth, and medically unassisted homebirth.

I believe that only God can and should tell a couple where to birth. How will God convey this to you? Through a still small voice, a peaceful feeling and/or through a burning in your bosom.

I also believe that when the Spirit guides couples to homebirth, they are resistant to it because it goes against this societies' current traditions. Homebirth has been made to seem dangerous and an extremist approach, thus people who desire to know more or who come to believe in homebirth, face the stumbling block of fear.

So although I recognize that hospitals, technology and medications are beneficial to many, my blog is dedicated to: encouraging couples to employ less interventions during hospital birth; extolling the benefits of homebirth; and supporting those who have been guided to homebirth, yet must overcome fear."

Rising Premature Births And A New Drug

2011-02-07T22:14:00.001-08:00

A new hospital-by-hospital study was released recently. It reported that the number of elective deliveries are on the rise, from 5 to 40 percent depending upon the hospital. A watch-dog group described the information as "extremely disturbing," and called on hospitals to limit early elective deliveries through establishing prohibitive policies.

The senior vice president and medical director of the March of Dimes Foundation, Alan Fleischman, said that elective "deliveries can be grave" because, "Babies born just a few weeks early have feeding problems, jaundice, inability to hold temperature and tremendous increased costs. Every week counts."

The report discussed the many health problems that premies face, including a higher risk of death, as well as life long health problems.

Some of the reasons cited for elective deliveries are concerns that the mother is overdue, medical inductions, a mother's desire to get her pregnancy "over with," and lastly, concern that the baby is too large. Alan Fleischman stated that "large babies aren't a valid reason for early deliveries."

The hospital watchdog group's CEO stated that, "Every woman in America needs to know [information on a hospital's early elective delivery rate] before she enters the door of a hospital."

Interestingly, just as the rise in the number of elective deliveries, (which can cause babies to born prematurely,) is being reported, a new drug to prevent premature delivery has just been approved by the FDA.

LiveScience.com reported in 2010 that there was a 20 percent rise in premature births from 1990 to 2006 due partly to induced labors and cesarean sections. Apparently, doctors aren't exactly sure what causes 50 percent of premature births. They believe that infections in the mother's body and genetics may be a cause. They also site social and lifestyle factors.

These factors are a woman's eating and drinking habits, her stress level and her income. Additional factors that increase the risk of premature birth are, "smoking, alcohol consumption, drug use, high levels of psychological or physical stress during pregnancy, and improper prenatal care increase the risk of preterm birth." According to the March of Dimes, "being underweight, having diabetes, or being pregnant six to 18 months following a previous pregnancy might raise the risk."

Living in high poverty areas also increases a woman's risk of preterm delivery since she may have limited access to health care, or her health may not be a priority while housing and employment are.

Birthing In An Upright or Vertical Position

2011-02-02T23:31:00.000-08:00

One of the things that I needed to learn in order to give birth without pain, is that birthing while lying on your back, or in the supine position, is the worst position to birth in. This position works against gravity, and actually hinders birth and causes the laboring woman pain.

Once I learned that women can birth while sitting, standing, or on all fours I was liberated! From the bed and from pain! My first two births, (which were hospital births,) were conducted in a bed. For the rest of my 5 births I never once lie in a bed. During my first homebirth I went to lie in bed, out of habit I guess, and as soon as I lie down I felt pain so I got out the bed and never got back in!

I left the bed and I came up with a wonderful position for labor. I stacked large throw pillows on the end of the bed. Leaning onto the pillows I swayed my hips back and forth. This was very soothing and I know it helped my son to descend as well as helped me dilate. I could feel how productive this position and movement was.

During that birth I delivered my son in a sitting position. I was on the floor on cloths, leaning back against a recliner chair, and I just leaned to the side a little with my knees bent when it was time for his head to emerge.

During my fourth birth my husband rigged from the ceiling something for me to hold onto and dangle from. I did use this although my son was born while I was down on all fours.

With my fifth birth I was laboring in the tub when I had the sensation that I needed to get out the tub. I went from the tub to standing, leaning over the sink. Our daughter was immediately born into her daddy's hands.

My sixth baby was born while I was on hands and knees. My husband was behind me and caught her with a pillow I believe.

My seventh child was born while I was on all fours in the bathtub.

I recently visited my Latina acquaintance, Enith Hernandez's website. I am so glad that I did! On her site she shared this amazing video that is in Spanish. Because I don't know enough Spanish to translate it all, using Google Translator I have translated most of the text.

The video is entitled, "Humanized Birth: Retrieving the Vertical Position."

"A woman should have her baby in the position she chooses."

"Walking and moving freely makes the baby's head push the cervix to produce more oxytocin."

"Dancing soothes the mama and favors the production of endorphins. Childbirth is less painful."

"The movement and pressure of the baby relax the pelvic floor muscles and facilitates dilitacion, rotation, and descent."

"With movement the contractions are more effective, you can share with your partner, and the waiting time is more pleasant."

"The birth canal, when the baby descends becomes wider, there is less trauma and possibilities of complications."

"The mother is the protagonist, has an active role and can change position and adopt the best position."

"Women throughout history have opted instinctively for the vertical position at the time of delivery."

"The vertical position makes for more effective uterine contractions, avoids using synthetic oxytocin (pitocin). Less risk."

"The vertical position causes the mother to feel more comfortable. It facilitates the encounter with her baby."

"By finding the most comfortable position and physiological delivery occurs naturally, cesareans are avoided."

"A physiological position allows uniform and spontaneous dilation of the perineum, avoiding episiotomy and tears."

"When mothers opt to have their baby on their knees, there is less pressure in large vessels and a better oxygenation to the baby."

"A woman may choose to hold onto a sheet which is done in indigenous communities since time immemorial."

"In conclusion women should choose the position, with liberty and peace, but the question arises:"

"If the vertical position is the most convenient (for mothers), why do they continue lying mothers down during labor and delivery?"

My Interview for BlogMomMagazine

2011-01-28T14:52:00.000-08:00

Today I was interviewed by Jenny Hatch for BlogMomMagazine. We discuss my 7 births, (2 CNM hsp., 1 lay mw at home, 4 uc) fathers at birth, Doulas, childbirth related scriptures, vocalizing, fear, overcoming pain in labor, Bradley Method, and more.

Although I was a bit distracted by my kids disruptions, I believe this interview offers much helpful information.

Make an on-line slideshow at www.OneTrueMedia.com

View the video montage of my fourth unassisted birth.

2011-01-20T23:55:00.000-08:00

A doula and childbirth educator, Naomi Thomas, recently posted this troubling photo on her Facebook. Although she first put the photo up in 2009, it is news to me ...

I can't believe what it states! I am a trained Doula. I have studied the Bradley Method. Laboring women are consumers and we have rights. How terrible that doctors and hospitals want to strong arm women into compliance and complacency. This is a crime and a crying shame.

This photo garnered quite a variety of comments on Facebook. Some women felt that at least the doctor is upfront about his views so that women would have a chance to find a more suitable care provider. Many were shocked. Others were angry that womens' choices would be rebuked. While still others made jokes about the misspelling of 'Doula.' I most liked the following comment:

I went to Dr. Judd's website (after searching on Google), found out where he received his training (after searching his bio) and then went to the school's website to see what their position is...here is a ...quote from UCSF where the doctor earned his degree, "At UCSF we tailor every birth to a woman's personal preferences and medical needs. Our physicians, midwives and nurses will help you plan the birth you desire, and provide you with the flexibility to modify that plan at any time during your labor."

I think everyone should comment to the school and inform them of the representation of their institute and how this graduate goes against their policy.

A Childbirth Myth

2010-12-29T08:53:00.000-08:00

In the midst of my hectic life, every now again my thoughts alight on childbirth. Last night while working it occurred to me that many people think that in order for a woman to give birth without medication for pain she must have a high pain threshold. This is a myth. I personally have given birth without out medication, and five times at home without medical assistance, and I don't think I have a very high threshold for pain.

In example, I have sprained my ankle twice in the past year. Each time it was very minor without any bruising and barely any swelling and I was crying and writhing from the pain until I took ibuprofen. My husband, while trying to help me get comfortable, couldn't help but tease me for being such a baby. Yesterday, I hit my knee with a chair and it doubled me over and I was bawling. I don't even have a bruise today.

Today I came across a news reel of a woman who gave birth in the front seat of her suv during a blizzard. She tells the story herself in one video and describes how her 5 year old son was in the car and how her husband didn't realize the birth was imminent.

Headed for the hospital, she was likely planning on receiving medication during birth. However, during her five minute description of the birth she didn't mention anything about being in pain. She says she was in denial and in shock that the birth was so close, as she giggles and also recalls that they were chewing gum and thinking they would make it to the hospital in time.

I wonder if she considers herself as having a high threshold for pain or not?

Spinals and Epidurals

2010-08-15T01:00:00.000-07:00

At my job I spend hours on my feet. Today one of my co-workers complained about her chronic back pain. She said that every time she works her lower back hurts her badly. I asked her if she'd ever been injured. She shared with me that during the cesarean birth of her second child, she received a "spinal" that was administered incorrectly.

According to my co-worker, the anesthesiologist was inexperienced and injured her. This caused her to not have any feeling in her lower body until three hours after the birth. She said she had to get x-rays before and after leaving the hospital due to her back pain.

My co-worker said that she was in pain for weeks and months following the birth. It subsided with time but was very bad during her third pregnancy. With that birth she still opted to receive an epidural. She was very concerned about it, but went ahead with the procedure since her confidence was buoyed by the technician having 30+ years of experience. She also said the epidural was administered in a different location on her back.

I recall one of my aunts telling me how ever since receiving a spinal during her births she has experienced back and leg pain. For her the pain is worse with cold weather.

Information from brighamandwomens.org explains the difference between a spinal and an epidural:

What is a regional anesthetic?

Spinals, epidurals and combined spinal-epidurals are regional anesthetics. A section or "region" of the body is numbed by the medicine that is injected into the spinal canal. The legs, the torso and part of the chest are the areas that become numb.

What's the difference between a spinal and epidural and a combined spinal-epidural?

The spinal cord and the nerves are contained in a sac of cerebrospinal fluid. The space around this sac is the epidural space (see section on 'Regional anesthesia'). Spinal anesthesia involves the injection of numbing medicine directly into the fluid sac. Epidurals involve the injection into the space outside the sac (epidural space). Spinals and epidurals have the same effect (i.e. numbs a large region of the body) because they both involve numbing of the nerves as they branch off the spinal cord. Since the spinal injection is more "direct", the effect is immediate. Spinals are usually the first choice of anesthetic for women who are not in labor but need a Cesarean delivery. Epidural anesthesia takes a little longer to establish desired affect. Because a small tube (catheter) can easily be placed in the epidural space, repeated doses of medicine can be given to maintain anesthesia as long as needed. Epidurals are the primary way of relieving pain in women that request analgesia for labor. A combined spinal-epidural involves a spinal injection followed by the insertion of an epidural catheter. Quick onset can be achieved with the spinal part. Further maintenance of the anesthesia is achieved through the epidural catheter.

How is a spinal anesthetic given?

The procedure for spinal anesthesia is similar to epidural anesthesia for labor or for cesarean delivery (see picture). The difference is that medicine is injected directly into the spinal sac. A thin needle is used to reduce the chances of a spinal headache.

Potty Training

2010-08-11T22:14:00.000-07:00

My baby is now 2 1/2 and potty trained! My husband oversaw the training. He was so eager to save money by not having to buy diapers that he spent a whole day sitting next to the toilet with our son.

The next day I went out and bought him some Spiderman underwear. I was disappointed that I couldn't find any training pants, the old fashioned kind of underwear that are padded. I guess these days they have been replaced with "pullups."

Personally, I detest Pullups and have never used them on my 7 children. I believe that they defeat the purpose, and it seems to me that most toddlers would rather soil their Pullup than spend the effort to go on the toilet.

And boy does potty training take effort on the part of parents, siblings, and the child! I am so glad that our toddler caught on quickly and he now takes his underwear off himself, gets on the toilet, or stands at the toilet, flushes it, gets dressed and even washes his hands on his own (most of the time!!)

He did have some accidents at first, however. And he also went through some emotional or psychological mourning over losing his diaper and departing with his waste. The first two days wearing underwear were great for him. By the third day he wanted his diaper back. He didn't soil it, he just wanted to wear it. He even undid the velcro fastners when it was time to go to the bathroom. Fortunately, he is back in the underwear during the day and just to be safe, I put a diaper on him at bed time.

Now if he'd just stop messing with his wee most of the day things would be perfect! I guess in underwear he is more aware of a certain part of his body than when he is wearing a diaper. I guess in time this too shall pass ;)

The New Way of Monitoring Births

2010-05-18T10:29:00.001-07:00

Wow! It has been sooo long since I last posted to this blog! I have been soo amazingly busy having been forced by the economy to work outside of the home (in addition to starting two home based businesses with my husband.) We have been so swamped that blogging has been far removed from my thoughts. But I will tell you that I miss discussing Birth!!!

So I played hookie today for the first time in months to check out the headlines and I was intrigued by this headline: Somerset Hospital Unveils new childbirth monitoring system.

All those people who think that their doctor will be by their side during their births might be surprised to hear that doctors prefer to monitor them from a distance.

I don't have much time to formulate thoughts on this. So I wonder what are your thoughts on this new method of monitoring?

Dorthea Lange's Photo of a Nursing Mother

2009-08-15T14:34:00.000-07:00

I was just enjoying looking through Dorthea Lange's photographs on the internet and thinking how wonderful it is to have these amazing photos available to us. I have always loved Lange's work and been so grateful to her. I was surprised to realize that she took many photos in Nipomo, California, which is basically where my family is from. Being descended from migrant farm workers who worked up and down California picking produce, the photos are very meaningful to me.

I love so many of Lange's photos, but this one of a mother nursing her baby is particularly striking to me. . We are probably all familiar with the iconic photo (below) of this mother with three of her seven children, but like me, you may not have seen this one above before. Isn't it amazing?
You can view more of Dorthea Lange's photos by googling her name or by visiting this link.

A Song for Mothers!

2009-07-21T09:40:00.000-07:00

Once again SaraihBella has sung a song that reflects people's real emotions and lives. She is such a unique song writer. All of her songs have so much substance. I love this song that she has written about her new baby growing inside her womb.

Enjoy!

Baby Switching: Another Reason To Birth At Home

2009-05-12T01:00:00.000-07:00

Here's another reason that makes home birth more appealing than hospital birth. There are no other babies present to get mixed up with your own. When the baby gets bathed (preferably by your husband or mother rather than a nurse) your sure to get her back. There's no need for baby identification bracelets at home.

Read this story about two babies switched at birth:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090511/ap_on_re_us/us_switched_at_birth

Join This Group On Facebook: One Million Babies Born Safe At Home

2009-03-27T00:31:00.000-07:00

Are you on Facebook? If you are you should join the group, I bet I can find One Million Babies born Safe and Sound At Home!

I just joined and the group has 5, 618 members. But that does not reflect the amount of babies when you consider that I have given birth to 5 babies at home. There are certainly many people who have joined that have had more than one child born safely at home.

This group was created by Julia Wilson of Australia. What a great idea!

Freebirth: Controversial

2009-03-25T23:29:00.000-07:00

Mamaroo.com posted an interview entitled, " A Controversial Interview About Freebirth." What I find most interesting about the interview is that the mother gave up the baby that she bore so that it could be adopted.

The mother is pro-choice and may have aborted had she realized that she was pregnant sooner. Since she found out too late for an abortion, she had to decided whether to keep the baby or give it up. She said:

I didn’t decide until I looked into the baby’s face to give him up. I realized that I had created, carried and delivered this tiny, perfect child virtually by myself and it was my responsibility to see that he could have everything the world had to offer. I wasn’t (and still am not) in a place in my life in which I could provide the kind of life that he had deserved.

This reminds me of when I once spoke with a woman who counsels pregnant women considering abortion. She told me of some of the things she says to such women. I recall her telling me how she shares the story of King Solomon and the two women who came to him because they were fighting over one child. One of the women's baby had died and she claimed that the other woman's baby was hers. Both women wanted the child. King Solomon decided he would cut the baby in half that way both women would have the child. But one woman said that she would not allow the baby to be killed, instead she would relinquish it so that it might live. The King new that she was the true mother of the child by her decision.

So this anti-abortion advocate would encourage young women to be like the mother in the story, and to let their child live by giving it to another. Praise God the woman who was interviewed was unable to end her baby's life and that she did the best thing and gave up so that he might be adopted by a couple who will love him and raise him as their own. God bless that baby and his biological mother.

A Home Birth

2009-03-25T23:12:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite bloggers just had a baby! Her baby boy was born at home with a midwife in attendance, I believe. She has not posted her birth story yet, but she did share some lovely photos of her baby, Jeshua.

Nurturing Children From Pregnancy Breaks Cycle of Poverty

2009-03-23T07:24:00.000-07:00

YahooNews put out this video on one man's mission to cure inner city poverty in Harlem. With three out of four kids being born into poverty and never breaking the cycle inspite of expensive social programs, he realized that efforts to thwart poverty needed to begin with pregnancy.

When his wife became pregnant eleven years ago he realized that children's brains are receptive from birth and parents need to, "put in valuable information," through singing, reading, talking, playing.

One study found that children of upper class parents have heard 30 million words by the age of three, with most of those being positive. For children with parents on welfare they hear only about 10 million words, most of which are harsh and scolding.

Fourth graders whose mothers have graduated from his "Baby College," are testing off the charts. Yay for Gregory Canada and his work helping children in Harlem!

If you want to learn lullabies to sing to your children, visit my other blog: http://singyourfavoritelullaby.blogspot.com

A Missouri Home Birth Doctor Dies At Age 72

2009-03-21T11:26:00.000-07:00

STL.com ran an article yesterday about a family practice practitioner who delivered over 5000 babies and was the only home birth doctor in the St. Louis area. Dr. Duhart was the first African-American to graduate from Kirksville College of Osteopathic Medicine in 1970. Read the
article to find out more about his illustrious career. It is just as important to read the touching comments left by many people whom he had serviced in his 38 year practice.

I decided to write a letter to the editor. This is what I wrote:

Reading about Dr. Duhart's death, on 3-20-09, saddened me profoundly. I did not have the honor of ever meeting him, certainly I had never heard of him before. My sadness stems from the understanding that many women will not have someone like him to rely on during their births from now on. Who will replace Dr. Duhart? No one. I'd venture to guess that Dr.Duhart was the only home birth doctor in all of Missouri and many other states as well.

As the mother of 7 who has birthed in the hospital with midwives, at home with a lay midwife and four times at home unassisted, I have first hand knowledge of the desire that many women have to birth their babies in the comfort of thier own home. I am also familiar with the difficulty in finding a care provider willing to assist with home delivery.

Although we chose to birth unassisted, it would have been wonderful to have the option of having Dr. Duhart at any future births if I felt the need to have such assistance. I regret that he did not write a book about his life and experiences. I would love to read more about him. If possible someone should write his biography.

I wonder if any reporter had ever written any articles about him while he was living? This man was a jewel, and his trust in birth should be an example to all of the doctors who want to make home births impossible. It would be wonderful if this story ran nationwide so that other doctors might see that one of their own supported women and their right to choose home birth.

Click here to read about a home birth that Dr. Durhart assisted.

Obesity Linked To Prenatal Fish Consumption

2009-03-20T01:34:00.000-07:00

The other day I wrote about how obesity deleteriously affects childbirth. Because of the rising numbers of obese teens, I encouraged mothers to develop in their young daughters the habit of exercising as a means of preventing pregnancy and childbirth problems when they are adults.

Today I came across the results of a study that claims that there is:

a link between obesity in women and pre-natal exposure to toxins found in fish. The study is the first to show that eating fish from polluted waters has an impact on contributing to obesity.

Apparently, the toxin DDT breaks down to DDE and bodies of water are polluted with this chemical. The study stated that, " Offspring from mother's with higher levels of DDE from DDT were more than twenty pounds overweight."

This study was conducted by the University of Michigan and was conducted with women who consumed fish from Lake Michigan.

An Unplanned UC in Singapore

2009-03-20T01:02:00.000-07:00

Check out this interesting birth story. It is of an unintentional unassisted home birth. The couple, who live in Singapore, are Christian and were very prayerful throughout the birth. Although they had planned on going to the hospital, they had prepared for a home birth and so were not afraid. This was the birth of their seventh child.

The mother believes the baby was in a posterior position during the labor which made delivery somewhat slow. The following is an excerpt from her birth story:

Although neither of us knew what to do, what was awesome was that I was very calm inside. No fear, no pain. no panic.

Then comes the next awesome part, I felt her turn very slowly. Usually this part happens so fast I don’t feel it but this time I did! I remember yelling at dh, “Don’t pull her!” And he goes, “I’m not doing anything! She’s turning on her own!”

And then there was a pause.

I prayed for contractions to re-start, while dh was praying for Anna to cooperate with my body.

Another Politically Incorrect Post: Obesity Affects Pregnancy and Childbirth

2009-03-18T00:00:00.000-07:00

I know that I once had happened across a blog whose author staunchly opposes linking childbirth complications to obesity. Unfortunately, I don't recall the name of the blog. Certainly that blogger would take issue with this post of mine. But I feel that I must share my belief on the subject.

In 2007 a study found that in the UK maternal deaths were at a two-decade high. The report stated that:

of the almost 300 women who died during childbirth between 2003 and 2005 from pregnancy-related conditions, more than half were obese.

I have never dealt with weight issues in my life, in part because of diet and exercise, but I am also sure this is due to my metabolism. Although I have not had to deal with weight issues, I have other issues in my life with which I have struggled, like my temper, so I can empathize with those who struggle with predispositions. But just because I have a temper, this does not mean that I can deny that anger is bad for you and has consequences.

I say this to soften the blow of my following statements.

I am concerned for the younger generation of mothers. I see so many teens who are dealing with obesity. I see young girls as overweight as their own mothers, even though they have not yet had any children themselves! What will happen when they begin to have children? How will this affect their pregnancies and births?

As a teen I was involved in sports like track, basketball, powder-puff-football and softball. I was very athletic and fit. I also worked out with weights into my early twenties. My husband, who is a bodybuilder and boxer was attracted to me because of my love for exercise and sports. So I went into motherhood fit and trim. Though I have not worked out regularly in the years since, I have always been active in walking, riding bikes, playing football and other sports with my husband and children, coaching their teams and practicing with them.

Athletes believe in the term "muscle memory." From the website MyFit.ca comes the following explanation of this term:

Muscle memory refers to the accelerated muscle retraining phenomenon when a muscle has been trained, detrained and then retrained again.

How does this apply to you? If you take a long break from working out you will be able to get your muscle back much quicker thank someone who has never worked out before.

I believe that muscle memory has helped me stay fit through the pregnancies and births of my seven children. Exercising as a youth is an important part of women being prepared for their future as mothers and I believe that there is opposition in this world trying to prevent women from having good births. What better way than to have teen girls be inactive, over weight, and even beginning to sow the seeds of illness.

By the time they reach high school, 64% of children are no longer physically active. Why?

Becoming a healthy adult starts with being a healthy child. Many chronic diseases of adulthood have their beginnings in childhood. For example, it is important for kids to build strong bones, so that by the time they’re in their 20s, their peak bone density will be higher and their risk of osteoporosis will be decreased. from: Kids In Motion

Because my husband has lifted weights and been active since he was 12 years old, he and I have always involved our children in sports and exercise. Since we home school we are their coaches and we believe that by encouraging, even forcing them to exercise (when they are being lazy,) we are preparing them for the work they have ahead of them as adults. The boys will need to be fit so that they can work hard to provide for their families and also to be able to run and play with them, too. The girls will have to be prepared to be mothers, to carry and birth their babies as well as tend to their families and also play with them.

The odds of an adult being physically active during free time are greatly increased if they took part in organized sports as a child, according to newly published survey results appearing in the December issue of Medicine & Science in Sports & Exercise®, the official scientific journal of the American College of Sports Medicine (ACSM). The results indicate that encouraging participation in youth sports could result in improved health outcomes for the general population. From CollegeSportsScholorships.com

As parents we must encourage our children to be fit. I have found that my children take the most interest in activities that my husband and I participate in with them. I encourage you to exercise not only for your own health, but also for the health of your children and grandchildren.

Have you ever thought that you'd do anything to save your child from harm? Making yourself eat right and exercise is the best thing that any parent can do.

Laborists Step In To Catch Babies for OBGYN's

2009-03-12T23:15:00.000-07:00

So have you yet heard of the newest medical term.... A laborist?? Apparently, the new trend in hospital childbirth is going to be having a laborist deliver babies instead of the OB/GYN. This doesn't mean that the OB/GYN is going out of practice. This means that women who visit with their OB/GYN during pregnancy will be delivered by the laborist that is on duty, whoever that may be.

According to the laborist in the following FoxNews clip, pregnant women have little problem with meeting a new doctor while in labor. Funny that most of the women that I have spoken with over the years have never liked the idea of not being deliverd by the doctor of their choice. But then again who am I to judge since I consider an epidural or cesarean as much worse than natural birth, so I guess most women aren't going to care about having a laborist catch their baby.

I think this whole thing is just one more tally on the homebirth vs. hospital birth pro and con list.
What about you?

Birth Pain Doesn't Fade For Some: They Need Solace

2009-03-12T23:02:00.000-07:00

FoxNews.com reported the following.... Study: For Some Women, Memory of Childbirth Pain Intensifies Over Time. This study found that based on a woman's birth experience, the pain of birth doesn't necessarily fade over time. Women whose births were positive remember childbirth as less painful five years later, whereas the memories of women who had a negative birth experience did not decline and in some cases they increased.

Researchers also found that women who received an epidural recall birth as more painful than women who did not. With time their memories also declined.

For those women whose pain has not declined or who have experienced greater pain after a painful or traumatic birth, there is a new source of help available. Solace for Mothers is an online resource for the healing of mothers, as well as a resource for spouses, family, friends, birth activists and professionals. The following statement comes from the Solace website (which has been beautifully designed both aesthetically and in its purpose:)

Birth can be beautiful for some women. And for some women, difficult deliveries bring fear, pain, grief, isolation, anger, and shame for months or even years.

Talking by phone to a trained and sympathetic peer counselor can help a mother to come to terms with the feelings and thoughts she is afraid to say aloud to anyone else. Calls are free and confidential. Monthly in-person facilitated support meetings allow women to come together to cry and to laugh. Call 877-SOLACE4 – sharing, understanding, and healing.

Please share this information with those within your sphere.

Ever Thought of Birthing In A Hotel Room?

2009-03-12T00:51:00.000-07:00

This is an interesting post. One woman, (who felt her apartment was too small to give birth in,) was recently encouraged by her midwife to give birth in a 5 star hotel. She declined this suggestion for several reasons: 1) germs 2) the 'ruckus' 3) the mess 4) it's too late to change plans since she's 38 weeks.

Of course I had to share with her my viewpoint, as I see things totally different than she is right now. The following are my thoughts:

1) Hospitals are very germy places! So much so that thousands of people die because of the germs they harbor.
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/Health/story?id=1213789&page=1

http://archives.cnn.com/2002/HEALTH/07/22/gupta.germs.hiv.otsc/index.html

http://www.wjla.com/news/stories/1007/464319_video.html?ref=newsstory

2) As for the "ruckus".... yes, birth can be loud and overwhelming, but my 2 hospital births were louder and more painful than my home births. Why? I was terrified and forced to labor in bed. At my home births I had learned ways to minimize the pain and one of those is NOT lying in bed! I delivered 5 of my seven children at home and all were born out of the bed in various positions. I could share with you other things that I learned to help minimize pain if you'd like.
Also, hotels are pretty well insulated for noise, esp. a 5 star hotel!

3) As for birth being like a 'murder scene' you'd be amazed at how little blood there is generally at a home birth. I have never had any blood get on anything unintentionally, not carpet, blankets or even the bathroom floor! And only one baby was born in the bathtub. I just simply put down a sheet, some chux pads and a towel or two. The pads got thrown away and the towels washed. Simple!

4) As for changing plans this late...A friend of mine went from planning a medicated hospital birth to a medically unassisted birth in the same amount of time. Her birth was wonderful. If it is something that you want or feel led to, you can do it!!!!

5) Your apartment probably isn't too small to give birth in! You'd only have to accomodate you, your man, and the midwife/midwives. As for me I usually labor on the toilet, in the bathtub, or leaning onto a sofa. I only use one or two rooms. And I am sure that if you informed your neighbors of your plans they would be very excited for you. And remember, not all births take place at night! Three of mine happened during the day.

Forgiving Your Husband During Childbirth

2009-03-12T00:07:00.000-07:00

I came across this post tonight, entitled, Who's Having This Baby: The Benefits of Planning An Unassisted Birth. The author ended her post by saying that even though she'd like an unassisted birth, she'll never have one because her husband doesn't like to give her loves during labor as he is put off by the blood. Since she likes attention during labor, she will have a midwife with her.

Her thoughts reminded me of my own births in that my husband also doesn't like the idea of the blood and bodily fluids that occur during birth. The following is some of the comment that I left. I want to share it with you with the hopes of illustrating that sometimes we need to forgive our husbands for their shortcomings, otherwise our labors may become complicated (literally.) By forgiving them we allow ourselves to commune with God and be receptive to his blessings.

I have had 4 uc's, even though my husband complained of the blood before our first home birth. He was freaked out by the idea of touching the baby. He was so afraid that we ended up calling the midwife to attend. Funny thing is, for months I thought that the midwife directed his hands to catch our son. While telling our birth story to a friend my husband interrupted and corrected me. During the birth when he saw our son crowning he just reached out and caught him. He didn't think twice about the blood or anything, just his baby! And he was so happy to have caught his son!

But I never could get him to dress in shorts during our labors. He never wanted to get my fluids on him!! (ridiculous!) How funny. Since I desired for him to be more "one" with me than pants and shoes allow, I really had to forgive him through the power of Jesus Christ, because it really bothered me. But I knew that God would want me to forgive my husband and to accept what he was willing to do during our births. Sometimes during labor I've had to rely solely on God, but most of the time my husband has been totally there for me. I forgive him for what he couldn't give me, and I love him for all that he has given me of himself during our 7 births, especially that which is against his nature or preference.

Have you had to forgive your husband during pregnancy or birth for something that you wanted him to do but he refused? How have you been able to cope?

Pregnant In America Documentary

2009-03-11T00:10:00.000-07:00

I am usually a bit behind in the news, so you may be aware of this documentary already. If not, you'll be glad to learn that there is a new documentary entitled Pregnant In America coming soon. Visit the website and view a trailer as well as testimonials from those who have screened the movie.

If you are interested in earning some money you can host a special screening in your home, or another venue like a church. Check out this page to learn more.

The documentary contains interviews with many natural childbirth experts like Michal Odent, Ina May Gaskin, Marsden Wagner, and more. The following is an excerpt from a review of the documentary published on the PIA website.

(T)he thesis of the film is something perhaps more startling: that American business interests really have an awful lot invested in promoting childbirth—and in making it as expensive for you as possible. The tagline says it all: “Who’s getting rich? Who’s paying the price?” And the film’s moving answer to the second question is: our children.

Something To Think About: The Birth of Jesus

2009-03-10T23:18:00.000-07:00

Cassandra, over at Home Birth Is Safe, made a satirical post about the unassisted birth of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. She points out that he was born without any medical, technological or pharmaceutical assistance. Such blaspheme to the demi-god medical system!

Photo credit

Ceareans Don't Decrease Maternal or Infant Deaths

2009-03-10T23:04:00.000-07:00

According to Carmen, author of Talking Out Loud, cesareans haven't decreased maternal or infant mortality rates in Brazil, but rather the popularity of this procedure has caused a marked rise in the numbers of women and babies in that country that die due to childbirth.

Apparently, some private hospitals in Brazil have a 93% rate of cesareans! Carmen presents the reasons why this Brazilian birth trend is becoming so common there.

Carmen has given birth at home once and is expecting her second baby.

Herbs for Birth

2009-03-10T22:35:00.000-07:00

I came across the blog of an American midwife living in Sweden. She was about to give birth yet took the time to post about her labor preparations. I thought it was interesting to see the photos of her supplies. It was also informative to read as she mentions the herbs, oils and homeopathic remedies she would have on hand during the birth. Being a midwife, she had many supplies available to her that most home birthers wouldn't have.

With my UC's I only used a delee, suction bulb, chux pads and cord clamps. Even though I have never used any of the items she had available to her, I think it's great that she had everything there that made her feel comfortable. I want to share her post with you in case you feel led to utilize any of the supplies she mentioned in her post.

Unfortunately, she has disabled the ability for others to link directly to her posts. So I am giving you the link to all her pregnancy posts. You'll be able to see the photos of the baby that she went on to deliver at home with midwives the day after she posted the blog entitled, Late Pregnancy Preparations: The Space and The Birth Supplies. You can also scroll down her page and read about vitamins, minerals and teas that she consumes during pregnancy.

Forcing Pregnant Women To Have Medical Treatment Against Their Will

2009-03-10T05:16:00.000-07:00

An article published in the Grand Forks Herald describes the difficulties pregnant women may have due to the North Dakota Housee Bill 1572 that was recently passed. Bill Wreaks Havoc On Women's Rights describes how many women have been forced to undergo cesareans against their will across the country and the HB 1572 leaves North Dakotan women at the mercy of hospitals.

Please read the article and share your thoughts with me.

Personally, I have long pondered about the relationship between women's rights to abortion and homebirth as I have heard many pro-life-anti-home-birthers argue that homebirth is like having an abortion. Meaning that the well being of the mother is put before the rights of the child.

Of course, those of us who believe in home birth consider the comparison akin to comparing apples and oranges, or worse. With a homebirth you are planning on a live baby and believe you are doing the best for your baby and yourself. With an abortion you are planning on a dead baby and are only thinking of yourself. Yeah, no comparison.

I have long been afraid that the law would meld the two together. It is terrifying to see that this is happening in North Dakota.

Make Your Own Childbirth Documentary!

2009-03-10T04:31:00.000-07:00

In case you (like me) hadn't caught this announcement elsewhere, Birth Matters Virginia is sponsoring a contest with cash prizes awarded!

Make a 4-7 Minute Video About Childbirth Options and Win $1000!
* 1st place prize: $1000 * 2nd place prize: $500 * Honorable Mention: $100 * Deadline for Entry is 11:59pm on Mother's Day, May 10, 2009*

Hmmm... so now my wheels are spinning and I am thinking I might try to enter something! Any suggestions? Thank goodness the deadline is May 10, 2009.

Preparing Your Nest For Homebirth

2009-03-10T01:50:00.000-07:00

Preparing, or nesting, for a home birth is different for nesting with a hospital birth. Nesting for hospital birthers usually consists of preparing the nursery and baby layette, as well as finishing up the list of projects that most mothers accumulate, like organizing closets or purchasing the car seat.

Those who home birth must make more preparations. Nesting includes preparing your birth room and gathering your birth supplies. One mom recently wrote about this topic. She entitled her post, Preparing Your Nest: Home Birth Necessities.

I feel that in addition to temporal or physical nesting, all moms also need to "nest" spiritually. Music is a big part of spiritual nesting for me. I love singing songs to my babies (born and the unborn!) So I sing lullabies and spiritual songs a lot at night.

I also find that having a blessingway, or a Blessing God's Way, is an important part of nesting for me. Check out my previous posts on my blessingway. If you'd like some ideas for songs you can check out my Sing Your Favorite Lullaby blog.

And you can look up the topic 'music' on my birth blog.

BornFree: A Title Not Just For Homebirth

2009-03-10T01:11:00.000-07:00

Funny, I always thought of BornFree as being a description used by home birthers or unassisted birthers. So I was surprised to see that this is the brand name of a new line of BPA free bottles and sippy cups.

The BornFree website describes their product thus:

BornFree™ is made of a new, safe, honey-colored plastic called PES (Polymer) that is free of Bisphenol-A. Our plastic is guaranteed to be free of the chemical Bisphenol-A.

This chemical is found in all feeding bottles made from polycarbonate.

The WWF (World Wildlife Fund) now recommend that you should not use polycarbonate feeding bottles.

For more info on BPA sippy cups visit Keeper Of The Home's review.

Heartburn During Pregnancy

2009-03-10T00:51:00.000-07:00

Do you experience heartburn during pregnancy? Fortunately, I have not had to deal with this issue myself during my pregnancies. But many women do so I can appreciate a post on the subject written by Keeper of the Home entitled, Healthy, Natural Pregnancy: Heartburn.

I hope that you will find the information helpful and that you will enjoy the Keeper of the Home blog in general.

Singing Lullabies: It's Easy!

2009-03-04T02:54:00.000-08:00

I just made this video for my other blog SingYourFavoriteLullaby. If you want to learn new lullabies and old favorites, click here.

Singing lullabies is very important, beginning with pregnancy. For more info, read this.

Hospital Birth Causes Women To Be Ignorant About Childbirth

2009-03-03T23:09:00.000-08:00

ScienceDaily.com reported today about a study that suggests that modern mothers are ignorant about childbirth, in part due to women birthing in hospitals.

Dr Angela Davis... said: “Geographical mobility means that women today more often live further away from family, which means they are less likely to have relatives on hand. Also most births take place in hospital so that very few women have been present at childbirth before they have their own child.”

The study also found that many women have no idea how to care for their baby, even though they had the desire to do so.

I think in Biblical terms that this is why we are to be and have Titus 2 women around us. The older, experienced women are supposed to help teach the younger women. We should be examples to young women in cooking, house keeping, birth, breastfeeding, sling wearing, and mothering.

If we are away from our mothers there should be other women whom we can seek out to help us. I think that many people don't do this these days. I think that this is because so many people aren't humble enough to ask for assistance, to seek out a mentor.

So many times I have tried to prick a young woman's heart. Once, while pregnant, I asked a group of girls if they'd ever felt a baby move and none of them had. (And one of them had a sister who'd just recently given birth!) I also nurse freely at church, in all of our meetings and I hope that the sisters, both young and old have been affected for good. Some times I will even speak of home birth to young women when the opportunity arises.

Unfortunately, at the last birth of my seventh child, my 16 year old daughter didn't end up witnessing the birth. I will always regret that I had sent her out just minutes before her baby brother was born. I know that she heard me laboring and that she was only in the next room, but I feel so sad that I robbed her of the opportunity of seeing a baby being born! She did come into our bathroom immediately after though, and was able to see her baby brother just seconds after entering the world.

May we all reach out to someone younger and someone wiser so that we may teach and learn.

Mothering Artwork

2009-03-03T00:06:00.000-08:00

I was looking through AllPosters.com and found some really cool mothering and religious prints. Some I had never seen before. I thought I'd share them!

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Organic Birth Video: Why Women Choose Homebirth

2009-03-02T23:34:00.000-08:00

I think Toni did a great job in making the video below. She speaks well, and logically addresses many of the common concerns that people have about home birth. Be sure to check out her new website Organic Birth!

O, My Little Ones ... A Lullaby by Susana Sung by Daniela

2009-02-18T17:43:00.000-08:00

This cool, young chic named Daniela (whom I found on youtube) sang one of my songs for me!!! Yay! I am so thrilled, she did an awesome job and I am so grateful. Hope you enjoy it as much as I do!!!

BTW, This is one of my songs that I dream of recording on a cd for moms.

Salma Hayek Loves Breastfeeding

2009-02-11T20:20:00.000-08:00

While in Africa Salma Hayek (who once said admitted that she is addicted to breastfeeding) nursed a sick, one week old boy. This is what she said.

"The baby was perfectly healthy, but the mother didn't have milk. He was very hungry. I was weaning Valentina, but I still had a lot of milk that I was pumping, so I breast-fed the baby. You should have seen his eyes. When he felt the nourishment, he immediately stopped crying."

On the video she also tells how her great-grandmother was approached long ago in the streets of Mexico by a woman whose baby was crying because the mother did not have enough milk to feed her. Salma's great-grandmother took the baby and nursed her to sleep.

This story gives explanation for Salma's love of breastfeeding and also her willingness to share her milk. Breastfeeding is obviously a tradition passed down to her through her mother and grandmothers.

In my own life, my grandmother did not produce enough milk for her own children so several of them were nursed by my great-aunt.

Although Salma nursing another baby may seem odd to some women, like the commentator on the Young Turks version of the video, who states that she would never nurse a baby that wasn't hers, this would be no problem for me. I think that being a mother gives us a maternal affection for other babies, too. Certainly, God instilled in us a love for humans that transcends caring for our own children. How else would women adopt children and care for them as their own?

Here's a link to the ABC News article about the story. It includes a clip of the video also.

Donate to Candian Birth Center

2009-02-11T13:00:00.000-08:00

I was looking online for charities that need quilts donated. I came across the Canadian, Rankin Inlet Birthing Centre in Nunavut. Upon calling the center I found out that quilts are not especially needed, although they would be accepted. The following are the items needed:

6-10 lb. Sleepers
Onsies (undershirts)
Receiving blankets

These items can be mailed here:

Rankin Inlet Birthing Centre
Rankin Inlet, NU
Canada
X0C 0G0

Below is some info on the center.

Video:
Bringing it all back home for community health

Topics: Childbirth; Health services; Indigenous knowledge; Indigenous methodology; Infants; Inuit in Inuit communities; Midwifery; Northern communities; Pregnancy; Prenatal care;

Programs and services; Remote and rural health
Population: Inuit

The Centre provides low-risk obstetrical services to the Kivalliq Region. Nurse Midwives provide prenatal care, and involve physicians on a consultant basis.

The Birthing Centre was established in response to Inuit women wanting to deliver closer to their homes, families, and social networks.

Located in Rankin Inlet the Centre provides low-risk obstetrical services to the women of the Kivalliq Region.

Midwives provide prenatal care and attend deliveries. If necessary physicians are involved on a consultant basis.

Physicians do participate in weekly Perinatal Committee meetings wherein all prenatal patients are reviewed. Prenatal risks are reviewed and decisions are made whether the woman should deliver in Rankin Inlet or be referred to Winnipeg.

A Song of Encouragement

2009-02-10T01:59:00.000-08:00

This is a lullaby, but I think it could be very encouraging during pregnancy. (Especially if it had neat photos of nature with it.) Anyway, enjoy!

I know the journey is long
but this distance can only make me stronger
I know there will be tears and smiles and fears
and I'll grow tired at times
but I know
you'll be by my side

So I will lift up my eyes to the sky
where my help comes from,
the only one,
the God of love

the sun will not harm me by day
nor the moon by night
cause I know you'll keep an eye on me
and watch over my life
tuck me in good night
hum your lullaby

I know the journey is long
So I'll wait patiently for that day to come
when I will lay eyes on the king
I will laugh, and dance, and sing with you
and you'll say
"My child you've come a long way,

And every time you looked up and smiled
I'd smile back,
and every tear you shed
I held in my hands
And everyday, and every night
I kept my eyes on you
and tucked you in
and sang good night
and hummed my lullaby
held you when you cried
gave you piece of mind...

you're not alone
you're not alone...
never alone..."

Intuition During Unassisted Birth

2009-02-09T23:00:00.000-08:00

I have begun reading Rixa's dissertation Born Free: Unassisted Childbirth in North America.
On page 173 she quotes a description of the process of intuition according to a woman named Iris. It is her belief that intuition comes from the information that we pick up through reading and life in general. When that info is needed our brain "googles" itself then provides us with the necessary info.

Today Yahoo! News published the article, Study Suggests Why Gut Instincts Work. The article discusses some recent findings made by psychologists.

Sometimes when you think you're guessing, your brain may actually know better.

After conducting some unique memory and recognition tests, while also recording subjects' brain waves, scientists conclude that some gut feelings are not just guesswork after all. Rather, we access memories we aren't even aware we have.

"We may actually know more than we think we know in everyday situations, too," said Ken Paller, professor of psychology at Northwestern University and co-researcher on the study.

These findings give credence to Iris's description of how intuition works, and lend support to what unassisted birther's have often relied on: the belief that if they are educated and prepared they will know what to do in a crisis situation.

As Rixa's dissertation points out, doctors don't believe in lay-(wo)men's intuition as it is not scientific or rational. Because of this I don't think that the psychologists named in this study would approve of the following statement being applied to childbirth:

"Intuition may have an important role in finding answers to all sorts of problems in everyday life," Paller said.

Childbirth Poems

2009-02-07T21:05:00.000-08:00

The blog Birth Rhythm has a beautiful childbirth poem published entitled Victory.

There are also many childbirth poems on Complete Mother.

Below is my poem written Feb. 7, 2009
Photo Credit: Tamara Wallop copyright 2009

Life Through My Body

I've had 7 babies inside my body,
not all at once,
Thank God,
but 7 none-the-less.

Each time I have shared my body,
it's been a blessing,
a trial,
a miracle,
a joy.

Growing so quickly, squirming inside me,
spurning my hormones,
rising emotions,
spiritually awakening,
mentally stimulating,
physically challenging.

Ripened for 9 nine months,
waiting to emerge,
burgeoning,
swelling,
tiresome,
yet blissful.

Finally the time comes to exit,
powerful,
demanding,
climactic,
surges.

Like a wave you are leaving my body,
pushing your way,
to a new world,
where your family awaits
with love.

I see you for the first time outside of my womb,
tears of joy
as I caress you
and you nuzzle at my breast,
in warmth.

I can't believe that you came from within me,
and I am grateful
for the journey
that we've traveled
together.

Now, I wonder if I'll ever share my body again?

To read more motherhood related poems, written by Susan Fierro-Baig,
visit HomespunProse

To read more poems published on Spirit-Led Birth, click on the label "Poetry" below.

How To Wear/Nurse Your Baby In A Sling

2009-02-05T22:42:00.000-08:00

Rixa, author of Stand and Deliver, published a post entitled, Breastfeeding Sabotage Kit. One of her readers left a comment asking for instructions on nursing with a sling. This motivated me to write this post, as well as put together the informational video montage below, utilizing some photos I took 4 years ago. I hope it will be of help.

I have nursed my 7 babies for differing lengths of time. All of them have been nursed for at least 15 months. I believe I was given my first sling after the birth of my third child. It was an "Over the Shoulder Baby Holder," which is a padded ring sling without a loose tail. A dear friend of mine had gifted it to me. Her slings were much more flexible than mine, having been used by her regularly. Mine was new, stiff and bulky. It was very hot in the summer and just cumbersome. I used it, but not as much as I would have liked. I eventually passed it on to another expectant woman.

After the birth of my fifth child I needed a sling. We had moved to a new state and I didn't know anyone who I could borrow a sling from, as the cost of a new sling was too much for me. I ended up making my own sling and I am soo happy that I did. (Click on the link provided to learn how to make a "No Sew" ring sling.)

I set out to Walmart to find some material and I hit gold. I found the best kind of material to use. Because I wasn't sure about the proper measurement and it was only $2 a yard, I bought quit a bit. Then I bought some metal rings at a hardware shop. I ended up leaving the tail of the sling long. Then I got creative and crocheted a fringe on the end of it. It turned out to be the best sling for me. I was so comfortable with it and the long tail turned out to be perfect for nursing discreetly.

Although I have mastered the art of nursing discreetly, to the point that few people notice, (even without a sling or any kind of blanket or material,) I find a long tail on my sling helpful with wiggly babies, or when latching on. Recently, at dinner with friends, one of the guests had no idea I was nursing and I was not even using my sling.

Here are some things that I do when nursing with a sling in public.

1. I think being confident with yourself is paramount to nursing in public. If you have anxiety about it you will attract more attention than necessary. Try to relax.

2. I generally turn away from people while latching on. Once baby is latched on I resume my position.

3. Most often I do not have my baby completely enclosed in the sling when initiating nursing. I tend to have the shoulders and head free, with the sling enveloping the lower back, bum and upper legs. This requires me to use my arm to support the baby's head and back. While latching on I tend to use the long tail of my sling as a loose covering. Once baby is latched on I can easily pull the sling material that is enveloping the baby up to support its back and neck. Then I can move the sling's tail to the side or not.

4. Whenever possible I generally try to initiate nursing while sitting, or with one leg propped up on a chair or something of that height. This allows me to slacken the sling material while latching on. Once baby is latched on I can take out the slack by pulling on the sling's tail and then I am good to go.

5. Often while using my sling, and if my baby is a bit older, I prefer to not put the baby in the sling for nursing. I find it easier to do this: Instead of putting the sling over my head and shoulder, I simply pull on the tail of the sling to make it bit long and wear the sling over one arm. Or you can just wear the sling normally and lengthen the tail. This allows me to use the tail as a cover while latching on. Then, once baby is asleep I will adjust the sling to fit properly, put it on, then put the baby in the sling! There is no rule that you have to nurse your baby in the sling!

6. When nursing in public I generally have two concerns: 1) being exposed during latching on 2) Because I don't use nursing shirts, I have to pull my shirt up for feedings. This can cause my side and back to be exposed. (I don't know about you, but I prefer not to expose my baby chub!) So this is what I do when wearing the sling and even if I'm not wearing it. I get the end of the tail and tuck it under the arm on that side.

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Avoid Anti-bacerial Soap When Pregnant

2009-01-31T11:04:00.000-08:00

Years ago I wrote a guest columnist piece for my local newspaper in Colorado about American's growing obsession for anti-bacterial cleansers. Just today I read a post on this topic entitled Antibacterial Soaps: Unnecessary Risks. The author ends the post with the following caution:

While the research on the negative effects of antibacterial soaps is far from definitive, the evidence that they are no better at preventing illness than regular soap is... Exfoliation is the best way to rid your skin of bacteria... Most importantly, until more is known about antimicrobial chemicals, avoid them if you are pregnant or have an infant. If triclosan and triclocarban are dangerous to humans, the smaller the body, the greater the harm they can cause.

God's Will: Home or Hospital?

2009-01-30T23:20:00.000-08:00

Denver's Chanel 7 News ran the story Home or Hospital Birth? Read the article in its entirety and watch the news video.

I want to highlight the following part of the article:

Although many studies provide conflicting data, most experts agree that about 16 percent of women planning to give birth at home are transferred to a hospital for delivery. One other British study found about 40 percent of first-time moms were transferred to a hospital.

Doctors say a homebirth is definitely not for you if you are diabetic, have high blood pressure or experience pre-term labor.

I was involved in a discussion this week about Unassisted birth. We were talking about the Lord's will for childbirth in regards to location as well as the stillbirth of babies. I have highlighted the above section of the channel 7 article because it ties in with what we were discussing.

You see, it is my belief that we need to use sobriety, or wisdom (which is only part of the meaning of sobriety, by-the-way) during pregnancy and birth. And I believe that it is generally wise to not plan a home birth in some instances like severe diabetes, high blood pressure, or pre-term labor.

I will now share with you part of my comment that I made in the discussion that I mentioned I was involved in this week about God's will for childbirth:

I think that God does care where we give birth in that every experience is part of our progression and in all things there is a right and wrong way. Not to say that we can make blanket statements, but for each one of us there seems to me that there must be a line of demarcation. I think that we must follow the spirit, or our feelings, and also act wisely.

1 tim 2:15 says we are to birth in faith, holiness, charity with sobriety. I think that sobriety means being alert and conscious on different levels, being aware and having wisdom.

I get confused sometimes because one could say, for example, that having twins at home in a birth pool unassisted is not wisdom, or in keeping with sobriety because it is putting babies at risk. But then on the other hand some would believe this to be the wisest and less risky. Who is to know? Especially if the mother and father don't feel strong spiritual promptings.

I guess we must seek confirmation about our choices and be willing to live with the consequences. This is where the faith comes in I think. Having the faith to accept where the chips fall.

Just because we are prompted to birth at home or uc does not mean that bad things may not happen. Although I think God favors life, death is part of this world and can not be denied as part of His will.

I don't pretend to have the answers. Just some thoughts.

The following is a well put response to my comment above:

I disagree. I think when stating principles you DO make blanket
statements, but you also understand that if there is an exception to
the rule, the spirit will guide you.

When we are talking about the true principles of birth (or anything
else for that matter) I think we will make blanket statements, but as
LDS women we should always understand that there are exceptions to be
governed by the Spirit. We understand that, but we should always
proceed towards the general rule unless acted upon by the Spirit, and
trust that if there is an exception, the Spirit WILL speak to us.

I guess it is for this reason that I don't think it necessary to
apologize or qualify statements. We all know that there might indeed
be a rare emergency in which a c-section is necessary, but is it a
rule or the exception. It is my thought that it is an exception only,
and not the kind of birth our bodies are meant to have. Exceptions
come in any sort of number and variety depending on the basic principle.

I think our culture has become more obsessed with the exceptions so as
not to hurt any feelings, that they have forgotten that there are
general rules and guidelines. Those principles, rules, or what have
you are there to help guide us in making our decisions. Even things
that appear set in stone can have their times when the Lord decrees
other wise (like not sinking in water?) if it suits His purpose, or in
mercy to us in our weakness, or as a challenge to us in our strength.

In re-reading that last sentence it sounds like I think any variations
are by design. I don't. I think there are three ways that trials
come about.
1. Rain falls on the just and the unjust. Some things just happen.
2. By choice. Ours or someone else's that leads to consequences.
3. By deliberate design-- God's or Satan's.

What are your thoughts?

Charlotte Church Enjoys Home Waterbirth w/ Midwives

2009-01-28T22:56:00.000-08:00

PopCrunch.com reported on Charlotte Church's recent homebirth:

Charlotte Church and her rugby player BF Gavin Henson, 26, welcomed their second child this weekend.

“He was born just after midnight at her and Gavin’s home with Gavin in attendance at the birth,” the 22-year-old Welsh singer announced on her Web site Sunday.

“We can confirm that he weighed in at 7 lb., 5 oz., and that mum and baby are both doing just fine,” the posting reads.

The couple welcomed their first child, daughter Ruby Megan Heston, in September 2007.

According to bounty.com Charlotte prefers home birth because of the freedom it provides. Apparently, during her labor she enjoyed listening to Phil Collins and eating Indian food. The Daily Mail reported that, "She was joined by two midwives as she delivered her baby in a birthing pool."

This is a video of Charlotte singing "O, Holy Night."

A Recent Homebirth and An Upcoming UC

2009-01-20T08:11:00.000-08:00

A dear friend of mine just gave birth. I am not sure of all the details yet, but I believe she gave birth at home with the help of a midwife. Let me share some of Lori's story.

Her first birth was a traumatic hospital birth. She has since given birth UC 5 times. Her previous birth was the water birth of her twins. This being her eighth baby, and also being in a new part of the country, she decided to have a midwife present. This desire took her from their new home into their RV, to a church far away that employs a midwife. Yes, the church pastor had to interview them and give the green light for the midwife to assist them.

Even though they are not members of the church, (though they do share many beliefs) the church opened their arms to them and offered them a place to park the RV and use of their building.

Lori called me a couple of nights ago to tell me that the 10 pound baby had arrived safely after a hard, powerful labor. I can't wait for details.

The next thing I'd like to share is that a local friend of mine is planning a UC and has honored me with an invitation to be present at the birth. I feel a kind of burden to be spiritually right, and to understand her laboring needs, and just to get focused on her behalf.

Watch Dee's awesome homebirth video: zeke's homebirth

Temporal Artery Thermometer: Having Mercy on the Children

2009-01-20T08:06:00.000-08:00

My friend Jenne wrote on her blog, Descent Into Motherhood, about the temporal artery thermometer. I left the following comment:

Can you believe a couple of years ago I had to take my daughter to Children's Mercy hospital in Kansas City (she had some crazy infection that made it look like she had a golf ball under her chin and they had to lance it etc... very awful) and the whole trauma began in triage when they insisted the only way they could take her temp was rectally. I was so upset.

I hate hindsight. I realized later that I should have just told them NO!!!

These kinds of situations are what makes it soo difficult to go to the doctor and also to have someone in attendance at birth. Even when we think to resist their obtrusive ways, it is usually difficult to fight for your rights. Then later you wish you had.

You'd think Children's Mercy would have mercy on the children and have some high-tech non-invasive gadget like this. Maybe I should make it a campaign......

20/20 Reports on "Orgasmic Childbirth"

2009-01-07T23:58:00.000-08:00

Personally, I believe childbirth should primarily be a private husband/wife event and that viewing displays of affection as voyeurism. Therefore, I have no desire to watch the video Orgasmic Childbirth. I will share with you this abc report on the concept however, as the nudity has been blurred and it covers the whole topic well, in my opinion.

A Christmas Poem

2008-11-29T23:30:00.001-08:00

Breastfeeding
Originally uploaded by steffanmacmillan

The Truth
by Susana Fierro-Baig
Inspired by Psalm 22:9

The truth is
Jesus Christ
The creator of Heaven and Earth
Angels announced His royal birth

The truth is
He suffered and he died
for you and I

It's a truth that cannot be denied,
Just open up your eyes

It's whispered in the air,
it's everywhere,
the truth rides with winged
birds that fly,
With the sun that sets
in the west,
with a mother whose baby's
at her breast,
All creation speaks of it.

No, the truth cannot be denied,
Just open up your eyes

Hymn by Brooke Frasier

2008-11-14T17:24:00.000-08:00

NYT Article on Home Birth

2008-11-14T17:05:00.000-08:00

Baby, Your Home

by Liz Rubincam for The New York Times

Giving birth at home is growing in popularity.

Watch the slide show.

The NYT article, like most articles on the subject presents some good info, as well as the usual birth trauma story. The slide show is much more interesting.

If you'd like to know who was the first President born in the hospital, read this post, Having Baby at Home

Japan's Universal Health Insurance, Low Infant Mortality and Cesarean Rates

2008-11-05T22:31:00.000-08:00

Apparently, Japanese women are given a lump-sum payment to cover their delivery costs. I was not aware of this until I read an article by the Daily Yomuiri Online. That is an awesome benefit and I wanted to know more about it. So I googled the topic and found out some interesting information.

For starters I learned that the Japanese government wants to encourage childbearing by using public funds to pay for all childbirth costs because of their country's declining birth rate. According to Asia One News:

Under the current system, all new mothers in Japan receive a lump sum of 350,000 yen (S$5,300) from health insurance societies or other public medical insurance plan. But there is a catch - they must pay for all the delivery costs first from their own pocket.

Also, that amount is not sufficient for expenses in big hospitals, such as those in the Tokyo area, which on average charge between 450,000 and 500,000 yen for delivery services, the Yomiuri pointed out.

Experts said although an extra 100,000 yen or so does not count for much by Japanese standards, it still looms as a financial burden for many potential mothers, thus contributing to the falling birth rate.

Therefore, under the new system, the government will try to cover additional payments, which are common in big hospitals, on top of delivery costs, the Yomiuri said.

After reading the Asia One article, I read a page about the Japanese Health Care System dated October 13, 1989. Certainly things may have changed since then, but it was fascinating to me to read about how that country handles health insurance. It is vastly different from how our system operates. Here is an explanation of their system:

Since 1961, Japan has provided universal health insurance coverage to its citizens through two major plan types: employer-sponsored plans in which employers and employees are jointly responsible for insurance premiums, and community-sponsored plans, labeled national health insurance, in which local governments finance and administer health insurance plans with the aid of subsidies from the national government. The national government pays the administrative costs for all the health plans and supplies additional subsidies as required.

I immediately wondered, how is it that their country has been providing universal health insurance since 1961, for almost 50 years and we Americans have nothing like this!!!! What have we been thinking??? Why haven't we been able to provide our citizens with health insurance? We certainly have plenty of money in this country. Or at least we had until recently, I guess.
Here is another excerpt from the report on the Japanese health care system:

Although measures of the quality of Japanese health care are difficult to obtain, Japan has the highest average life span and lowest infant mortality rate in the world. In 1984, life expectancy at birth was 74.8 for men and 80.7 for women. [1] The infant mortality rate was 5.5 per thousand live births in 1985. [2] However, these figures reflect other factors such as the socioeconomic status, homogeneity, and lifestyle of the population as well as the quality of the health care system. Latest figures indicate that health care spending was limited to about 6.6 percent Gross Domestic Product (GDP).

This was also interesting to read. When this report was made, Japan had the lowest infant mortality rate in the world. Since 2005 Iceland has held that distinguished title. The US is somewhere down the list at number 29 with Croatia, Poland, Cuba and Estonia. Imagine that.

According to the Human Development Report, the United States ranks 12th globally on their human development index. If you look at their statistics, the US also has the lowest lifespan of the 12 countries that rank above us, yet we have the greatest health expenditure per capita. Which means that we spend more money on our health than Iceland Norway Australia Canada Ireland Sweden Switzerland Japan Netherlands France & Finland, yet they live longer than us and their infant and maternal mortality rates are better than ours. Go figure that out!

As for Japan, because their national health insurance doesn't cover the total cost of normal childbirth, their government wants to change that. Japanese health insurance plans pay for maternity leave and they also give a lump-sum allowance to mothers who nurse their infants.

One of the interesting things about Japan's health care system is that since their people live so long (82.3 years vs. the US expectancy of 77.9) the number of elderly people is burdening their system and they are considering revamping it.

The Ministry of Japan, Foreign Affairs explains in their Article 10 the laws that have been established for the Protection of the Family, including Economic Assistance for Childbirth. This resource gives a bit different information about their maternity leave and payments than the source I cited above.

My google search led me to a journal where an American man wrote about his wife's experience giving birth to twins in Japan. You can read his thoughts about Giving Birth, Having a Baby in Japan. Their story doesn't make it sound like a natural birth is very easy to come by there.

However, Mothering Magazine described giving birth in Japan thus:

Having a baby in a Japanese hospital, for example, means having individualized, low-tech care in neonatal units with dimmed lights, no noise, and very few drugs. May experts believe that this environment explains the Japanese cesarean rate of only 7 per 100 births, compared to the US rate of 24.4 per 100.

According to a May 9, 2007 International Herald Tribune article, " In Japan, the overall Cesarean rate has risen sharply, but was well below its neighbors at 21.4 percent in 2005, up from 11.2 percent in 1990." This rate is still much lower than the US c-section rate of 31.1% (according to the CDC's 2006 statistics.) It is not surprising that when Japan held the record of the lowest infant mortality rate they also had a cesarean rate of 7%.

According to the Austin Chronicle article, High Tech vs. High Touch, Non-Nurse Midwives and the Law, when the Japanese cesarean and infant mortality rates were at their best, Japan used, "midwives to deliver babies."

One More Reason to Breastfeed

2008-10-30T07:49:00.000-07:00

Here's one more reason to Breastfeed:

Scientists: Plastic Bottles May Pose Health Risk WJZ 13 Baltimore - Wed Oct 29, 6:04 PM ET

Many mothers are returning to glass baby bottles due to BPA concerns. Suzanne Collins reports.

Photos of my 7 children

2008-10-27T02:25:00.000-07:00

I spent most of my day and night taking photos of my kids and creating video montages with them. If you'd like to see the photos of my seven children, (and some of me,) you can see them here:
http://susanshomespunlife.blogspot.com/search/label/My%20Kids

My daughter took this neat photo of me. Do you see the bumblebee in the cosmo?

Newlywed Women Should Plan for Birth

2008-10-22T01:18:00.000-07:00

I have discussed the pros and cons of trying to educate women about their birth choices with my internet friends before. So many of us get discouraged by the apathy that women have. So many just want their epidural.

Despite this I continue to approach pregnant women and offer to help them achieve a "natural" birth. But my favorite women to approach and put a bug in their ear, are young, newlywed women. I have long believed that women should begin educating themselves about birth not when their pregnant, but long before!!

I came across an article in the Yale Daily News that encouraged this same thought. In part it reads:

“Way before childbirth, women must consider the politics of women’s health care,”

Maybe I'll print some copies of this article to had out to young brides.

Discovery Health Channel Airs "Freebirthing"

2008-10-22T00:05:00.000-07:00

I just finished watching "Freebirthing," on the Discovery Health Channel, (after calling in to upgrade our service so I wouldn't miss it!) Was it worth the upgrade?

Yes. I enjoyed it for several reasons. It was great to be able to see Laura Shanley and her husband since it's been years since I have been in their company. And although I do not agree with her completely on some points, I respect, admire and owe her a debt of gratitude, so it was nice to see her presented well by the producers of this program.

In the hour long documentary positive aspects of UC were conveyed, from the preparations and self-educating that each mother did, to the bright-eyed babies born safely in their own homes.

Of course it was annoying listening to all the professionals speak against unassisted birth. On so many of these types of interviews the doctors and midwives seem to think that all freebirthing women birth completely alone and have NO help at all. In reality this is not the case for most freebirthers, as most of them birth with a family member or friend's support. Yet they say things like, "If a woman hemorrhagesd it would be catastrophic and she wouldn't be able to a call for help." I am sure if she couldn't call for help, whoever was with her would.

Furthermore, it is mentioned that 50,000 women a year hemorrhage. But they don't state that "Excessive blood loss or 'postpartum hemorrhage' complicates approximately 4% of vaginal deliveries and 6-7% of cesarean sections. " Nor does the show clarify that 90% of post-partum hemorrhages occur due to uterine atony. For clarification, the following factors are associated with uterine atony:

Prolonged labor
Fetal macrosomia
Oxytocin
Grand multiparity
General anesthetics (halothane)
Couvelaire uterus
Multiple gestation
Dystocia
Polyhydraminos
Infection (chorioamnionitis)

I thought it was funny when the hospital midwife stated that unassisted birth is like studying on the internet how to parachute before trying it. I thought, "does she really think that birth, being an act that women were created to do, is like the unnatural act of parachuting? I know I wasn't born to jump out of a plane. But I was born to in turn give birth."

If you missed the first airing you can still catch it. It airs on Discovery Health at 9pm (EST) today (Tues), 12am Wed 10/22, 11am Sat 10/25.

You may want to visit Laura Shanley's blog and read her thoughts as well as Heather B.'s thoughts. Heather is one of the nine pregnant women that the show followed and who's birth was documented on the show. It is interesting that though there were nine sucessful freebirths, we are only made aware of three births.

Visit Discovery Health.

Thanks to La Vida for the program air dates/times.

Bearing Much Fruit: One woman's thoughts about homebirth

2008-10-17T01:09:00.000-07:00

I found this neat blog tonight, Bearing Much Fruit. The whole blog is very inspiring. I was pleased to read this woman's thoughts about homebirth.

In her post, Homebirth Experiences, she writes in part:

Homebirth is a subject that is near and dear to my heart. I have had 4 homebirths and loved each one. I believe homebirth is a safe and wonderful way to bring a child into this world. I also feel that women have robbed themselves of one of God’s greatest expressions of womanhood by allowing the hospital to invade this most precious part of a woman’s life.... There are times when a hospital and doctors are necessary and I have experienced that myself, but I still believe that homebirth is a better option than the hospital. Homebirth needs to be an informed decision made with much prayer and agreed upon by both husband and wife. I never try to talk anyone into having a homebirth it has to be their own decision.

Read her entire post.

Photos of Angelina Encourage Breastfeeding

2008-10-16T07:52:00.001-07:00

Angelina and Brad made news this week with photos of their family in W magazine. The cover shot of the magazine stirred up some controversy. It is a lovely photo isn't it? You can read the articles about this pic and their family.

Experts: Angelina Jolie Magazine Cover Will Inspire Moms to Breast-Feed

Shannon Fox, a psychotherapist with Momlogic.com, told Reuters, "If someone as popular, beautiful and together as Angelina is breast-feeding her children, it inspires other women to do so themselves."

Check out this page too http://www.wmagazine.com/celebrities/2008/11/brad_pitt_angelina_jolie

And look at these family photos http://www.wmagazine.com/celebrities

UC Deaths

2008-10-11T01:10:00.000-07:00

There is a discussion going on over at Home Birth Trash (I mean Home Birth Debate,) about UC statistics. Dr. Amy has claimed that UC is 20 times higher than hospital birth, as she is comparing UC stats to low-risk CNM attended births.

She is basing this claim on statistics that have been gathered from the UC roll call on Motheringdotcommune. These are the stats she refers to:

485 births

4 infant deaths, 0 maternal (causes: cord wrapped too many times around neck, uterine ruputure, shoulder dystocia w/ cord compression, fetal demise - they believe baby passed away before labor began)

43 transfers (not all emergent, some were for pain relief/prolonged labor)
10 cesareans

0.8% infant death rate
8.9% transfer rate
2% cesarean rate

One of the commenters to Dr. Amy's post, (a British midwife) pointed out that the UC stats were not solely of low-risk births, but rather, many were from high-risk UC births. She also states her belief that it is "pointless to compare the low-risk death rate."

9 x UBAC (some after 2 previous caesareans)
7 x breech
2 x twins
maternal diabetes
mother aged 40
postdates (over 42 weeks)
history of pre-eclampsia + UBAC
7th baby
several had no prenatal care.

Also, 23 were unplanned unattended home births which are known to be higher risk. To be honest, I'm amazed the death rate isn't higher but then maybe UC deaths are more likely to go unreported on MDC. Numbers are also too small to be statistically significant. It seems pointless attempting to compare the death rate low risk hospital births for so many reasons on both sides of the equation!

My response to this midwife's statement is that any deaths unreported wouldn't affect the stats that HAVE been reported. The unreported stats don't affect this small sampling. To ME, it seems that the rate of deaths for this mixture of low and high-risk births speaks well for UC.

The author of Woman To Woman Childbirth Education posted a lengthy rebuttal to Dr. Amy. In one of her points she states:

Even if your grossly inaccurate figures about the “excess rate of preventable mortality” were correct, which they’re not, at most, outlawing home birth completely would potentially save 80 babies’ lives per year. Maternal smoking and unmarried mothers are each associated with approximately 4/1000 greater neonatal mortality, and affect 400,000+ and 1.3 million+ babies, respectively, per year, or over 7500 dead babies that would have lived had their mothers not smoked or been married (I know these categories are not mutually exclusive, so there is undoubtedly some overlap).

Now, from time to time I have gone over to read Dr. Amy's incindiary posts condeming home birth. I have gathered that she extols inductions and c-sections at 39 weeks being the safest for babies, (not mothers, though.)

In times past she spoke out against the rising c-section rate, but now it seems she believes that nearly every woman should be induced/sectioned. All 7 of my babies were born at 40 weeks. I guess I needed medical intervention and didn't know it.

I have long wanted to share my opinion about Dr. Amy's masked agenda of outlawing home birth. I will agree that home birth is safer for women of low-risk, and that there are risks to home birth and I agree that women need to make informed choices.

But even if home birth was less "safe" than hospital birth and particularly, induced/sectioned birth, I believe that women must retain the right to give birth where and with whom they please.

Why? Life has risks. We risk our lives every day driving in cars, using appliances, flying in planes, vacationing, swimming, etc... No one should have the right to force a woman to birth where she does not feel safe whether it be emotionally, spiritualyl or physically.

The agenda of doctors should be to assist women in achieving the safest birth according to every woman's desire of location and privacy. If doctors like Amy applied their energy to working with women who want a home birth, rather than fighting them, UC would likely be even safer.

I for one do not think that any entity that condones abortions has ANY grounds to protest home birth, let alone mandate against it.

I have added my 4 uc's to the Mothering roll call. Please do the same.

Free Give Away on Susan's Homespun Life

2008-10-06T11:51:00.000-07:00

I have decided to give away one of my copies of I Am a Mother. Click here to learn how to WIN! One of the requirements is to blog your thoughts about Motherhood: No Pay, Big Rewards.

Charlene's Powerful thoughts about her unplanned unassisted birth

2008-10-03T07:41:00.000-07:00

Here's another story of an unplanned unassisted birth. This one happened in a car. Yes, the story of yet another such birth turning out well is in itself an exciting thing as it helps debunk the myth that unassisted birth is dangerous. But what makes this story even more remarkable are the eloquently expressed thoughts of the mother.

"You had him where?!!" I usually smile and laugh and nod with my eyes coyly turned down. I mean, what do you say to that? To the exasperated looks of disbelief and head shaking that goes on when I tell people I had my son in the car. "So, did the police come?" That's my favorite, as if my little son, Miles, was breaking the law by entering the world.

Not only is Charlene witty, her thoughts are powerful, emotive and written with clarity. I'll share another quote here, but I encourage you to read the whole post.

My close girlfriends, all of them mothers, have asked if I was afraid which is the funniest question by far. Fear never crossed my mind. I don't think I really know how to be afraid in the moments of childbirth. I feel so strong and capable. Giving birth has afforded me the two clearest moments of my life when I've felt the most authentic power. Not "in Power" as in control, mind you, but power with a little "p". The kind of warm ribboning force that streams through me, connecting me to every other woman who has dared the task and work of bringing another life into the world, connecting me to every other soul who has stood up and been present for the work that needed to be done.

An Unassisted footling breech

2008-10-03T07:23:00.000-07:00

Read Anna's birth story, on Easier Natural Childbirth. A planned midwife assisted waterbirth turned into an unassisted footling breech! I love where the mother states that instead of her usual birth positions, she felt inclined to labor standing up, (which facilitates breech delivery.)

When I called him to come catch the baby, he came in to see a heel sticking out. Without second guessing himself, he gently loosened the foot and it popped out, quickly followed by the rest of the baby. So, not only did we have an unplanned, unassisted homebirth that barely counts as a water birth, but we had a footling breech without any complications! Is that crazy or what?! God is so good!

Laila 's Hubby Catches His Son!

2008-10-02T21:37:00.000-07:00

I was so excited when I heard about Laila's plans for a home birth and disappointed for the family when their "plans changed." Of course I was curious to know what happened. People mag just published the reasons for her hospital birth: fetal growth restriction. They also published a gorgeous family photo. (I love the chocolate colored onesie little Curtis Jr. is wearing, btw!)

One of the many thoughts that this news prompted was that I hope she doesn't sour to the idea of home birth because this baby had problems. Many women have had issues during one pregnancy that didn't occur the next time.

But the main thought I had was that I am soo happy that Curtis Sr. caught his son!! Yeah! That is soo cool and such a great start for them. I wish more couples would insist that daddy's hands be the first to touch their new baby. I think this is so important. As Marily Moran advocated, when a daddy catches his baby it completes the love cycle begun during conception as the mama gives him her gift.

Indeed, there are benefits that the whole family reap when a baby is caught by its daddy. It is very meaningful to mothers when their husbands catch their precious newborn and it endears him to her. Fathers feel a deep connection and pride, and I just know that babies (on a very primal level) recognize the one from whom their life flows from... their father.

Though I have known couples whose OB's or Midwives have supported them in this, fathers catching their children has been overlooked in hospital and even midwife attended home birth. Since fathers are primarily relegated to mere bystanders during birth, most have not even considered the possibility of delivering their own child, and even if they had, they'd likely not mention it for fear of humiliation.

You know the general attitude of "I had to pay thousands of dollars and spend years in school to learn this, what makes you qualified?" I have experienced this in doctors offices repeatedly over the years in my "career" as a mother. Certainly most patients consider the doctor the expert and therefore wouldn't even consider such a thing.

My non-scientific belief is that whereas fathers have to struggle to feel that sense of ownership over their wife's body or their baby in a hospital birth (meaning they would feel like they need a doctors permission instead of feeling they have the right and power to make demands) in home birth fathers can more readily feel that sense of ownership.

Let me share an example to help clarify my point. During my first home birth I wanted an unassisted birth. During early labor my husband and I were still undecided... well I was decided but he wasn't. He asked if the midwife could please come because he couldn't handle catching a gooey body fluid covered baby. (Truly that was his main reason.)

I consented for his sake. The midwife came and during the delivery my husband caught the baby. For months I had thought the midwife must have directed his hands toward the baby so that he could catch, even though we hadn't disscussed this. But in telling a friend about the birth my husband corrected me. He said, "No that's not what happened. She didn't do anything. I just saw my baby coming and I reached out and grabbed him." ("What about the goo?" I asked. "It idn't matter, I didn't think about it. I just wanted to touch my son," was his reply.)

For me this is evidence that my husband was moved by the Spirit of God, from his heart and soul, that he should catch his baby. I also think that he was able to feel this and able to react accordingly because we were in our own home! Had we been in the hospital any inclination would have been stuffed, ignored because it is against protocol. I wonder how many dads, because they are not on their "own turf" ignore that divine feeling that God created men with, that protective instinct that they ignore by being a good patient?

Bravo for Laila, Curtis Sr and Jr! Families need all the love and bonding they can get.

Why I am likely voting for Obama

2008-10-01T06:03:00.000-07:00

Rixa, of True Face of Birth, decided to light-heartedly discuss politics. This whetted my palette and prompted me to share my political thoughts. This is what I wrote:
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I too have trepidations about airing my thoughts on politics. I am not a politics buff, I actually hate politics 'cause I think most politicians are liars and I always feel like I am voting for the best of two bad choices. In the last presidential election I was so disappointed that I chose to only vote on local issues.

I don't feel an allegiance to either party, I take sides with different parts of both of their agendas. But this time I am leaning towards the Dems. There are so many issues, like health reform, the environment, & economy, but as a woman of Mexican descent, I just feel like the Dems. are more in touch with social issues.
I was appalled by the lack of color at the Rep. convention.

When Sarah Palin gave her line about how with her, parents of children with disabilities will have an advocate in the White House, I immediately thought how with Obama, people of color will have an advocate in the White House and how long over-due that is.

I think it would send a message to the whole world, not just our country of immigrants, that in America it doesn't matter who you are, you have the ability to not just be a citizen, but lead our country too.

If there truly are caucasian folks in this country who cant' bring themselves to vote for a black man (as the pundits insist is the case) my thoughts are that people of color in this country have always voted for white folks without batting an eye and they ought to be able to do likewise.

I was so relieved to learn that Penns. has a governor (he gave a speech during the convention) who is a pro-life Dem.

Watching the debate between McCain (who my husband and I were leaning toward in the Rep. primary race) and Obama, it came through to me that McCain seems very short fused and Obama much better able to handle contention.

We think that Obama handled Palin's speech (where she made fun of him left and right) quite well and think it is indeed funny that she is now the one being made fun of and for good reason.

We believe, that although she won't mean it, (and it should have been her primary concern from the beginning,) she will use her families' needs as reason for bowing out of the race.

My husband has maintained since the first week of her nomination, that she will be replaced by Romney because of his economics experience.

If this does happen, we will still be voting Dem. Romney's stance on immigration and his healthcare plan (where families are penalized for not having healthcare coverage) is ridiculous.

Furthermore, we just simply feel that Obama has a unique quality to bring people together and that he will be able to unite our country and to forge better relations with foreign countries. We feel our country needs a different kind of leader, one who can light a fire under people. Though we don't think Obama completely satisfies our political interests, he will likely garner our vote. At this point, if we don't go with Obama, we will likely not vote at all.

New "Natural" C-sections

2008-09-30T01:48:00.000-07:00

C-sections are on the rise in the US. According to an Epoch Times article, the UK has come up with a "natural" cesarean that mimics vaginal birth. The article also states that although vaginal birth in the hospital has become more considerate of parents' birth experience and bonding, cesareans have not done so over the last couple of decades.

This led Fisk and his colleagues, from Queen Charlotte’s and Chelsea Hospital and Imperial College London, to modify the obstetric, midwifery, and anesthetic practices of traditional Cesarean childbirth “to emulate as closely as practicable the woman-centered aspects of ‘natural’ vaginal birth,” they explain in the medical journal BJOG.

The “natural” Cesarean allows parents to actively participate in and observe their child’s birth, explained Fisk, who currently directs the University of Queensland Centre for Clinical Research in Brisbane, Australia.

This is wonderful for babies and parents who have true medical reasons necessitating a cesarean. But I foresee that this new method will also make scheduled c-sections seem more enticing and therefore will add to the already rising numbers of planned surgeries.

It kind of reminds me of formula and the trend to make it more like breastmilk. That's great for babies who aren't breastfed, but it is not an equal substitute for breastmilk. Breast is still best. God made it that way, and all women should strive to breastfeed for the physical and emotional health of themselves and their babies. This applies to childbirth as well.

Empowered to Birth Naturally

2008-09-30T01:28:00.000-07:00

Thanks to Milk of Human Kindness for this post:

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Here is a description:

“In our society, when starting new adventures people tend to pay close attention to detail. When considering buying a house, going to college, getting married, and even buying a television, people conduct extensive research. This same care and attention to detail is all but forgotten when it comes to the life-changing process of giving birth. This area is all too often left to the “experts.” This shouldn’t be the case. If more people would research the current medical model of care and the midwifery model of care, the results could be revolutionary. More women just might begin to trust that their bodies can, in fact, do what they were created to do - and do it well.

Of course, some don’t consider the how of giving birth to be important. They just want the end result - a healthy baby. We assume that the medical profession has our best interests at heart when various interventions are doled out “for the benefit of mother and baby.” There is no consideration of any long-term effects those interventions may have on mother and baby. It’s all just accepted. Then, our society wonders why the cesarean rates are climbing. I believe the how of giving birth is of the utmost importance. I believe one can have the end result and a whole lot more. I’ve experienced firsthand how life-changing the process of birth can be. I’ve experienced it in a negative and positive light and would like to share those experiences with you.”

An Unplanned Homebirth In the News

2008-09-29T01:53:00.000-07:00

I came across this story on Radical Doula:

Baby born on front lawn July 31, 2008

A sweet story from Ann Arbor Michigan about a woman’s second baby born on their frontlawn by flashlight.

Barbeau helped Jennifer onto the grass and onto her hands and knees - the way she had birthed Rachel two years ago. Five pushes later, Maeve was born. Pink and perfect. “As they all adjusted to what happened, everybody was calm and pleased with their beautiful baby,” she said. “And there seems to be an appreciation of the humor of the situation.” “I took the most hilarious picture of them after the birth,” said Barbeau. “It looks like a camping trip.”

Jennifer was attended by her doula, who also happened to be a home birth midwife. They didn’t plan a homebirth and were on the way to the hospital (about to get into the car) when the baby was born on the front lawn.

Just another story for the sometimes births are just so easy they happen in cars, on couches, on front lawns files.
Cute quote to end the article:

“If I’d really planned a home birth,” she insists, “I think I would have given birth in the backyard.”

A Young Women's Fears About Childbirth

2008-09-29T01:37:00.000-07:00

Over at Latina.com, one woman blogged about what she calls Baby Mama Drama. She discusses her and her friend's reservations about giving birth and motherhood. Their fears are certainly shared by American women of all races. Some of her thoughts:

I’m in no rush to have kids. I can barely take care of myself and I’m honestly kind of scared at the whole prospect of nurturing an entire other human being to life. Especially because no one ever talks about the downside of pregnancy. Giving birth is really painful and woman have long-term side affects with their bodies! What about postpartum depression? Do you really get bummed after giving birth? Mujeres with niños, I want to hear from you!

I tried to leave the following comment. I am not sure why the comment wasn't posted. It is probably too long.
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Hi,

It is nice to read your open and honest post. (And it is nice to duscuss birth with another Latina.) I am the mother of 7 children. I have given birth twice in the hospital with nurse midwives, once at home with a midwife, and 4 times at home medically unassisted, (with just my husband and family.)

With my first two I had never heard of home birth. But then a friend mentioned it and I studied it and prayed about it. When I was pregnant with my 3rd I took dinner to a lady who had just had her first home birth. I arrived just hours after her wonderful birth. She was in her bed, her boys were in the living room, husband washing dishes, and I just knew that I wanted a home birth too. It was so peaceful and comfortable.

So many of the fears that your friends and you have are products of unnatural, medicalized birth, as well as society's messed up ideas about women's bodies.

I love pregnancy. Yes, it has its difficulties, but it is also a very amazing time. As for pain in childbirth, I will share with you my beliefs. I consider it hard work and powerful. My hospital births were overwhelmingly painful. I cried, screamed and was so afraid. But my home births were NOT! I actually enjoyed them ALL!

With my first home birth, when labor started getting harder, I thought, "Well, I guess I should lie down in bed." ('cause that is what we all have been taught by the TV.) Well, I lied down and that REALLY hurt. So I got out of bed and that was the last time during that birth and all of my next 4 births that I ever lied down!!! These are the main things that made my births better:

* Standing, swaying, kneeling.
* Vocalizing (not crying or screaming or saying negative things. But moaning, saying positive things.)
* Water.... hot bath, shower, hot towels on my lower back and perineum
* My husband applying counter pressure on my lower back/butt
* Faith in God and my body, to believe that God created me to give birth and that fear hinders women birthing. What we think we create!
* Privacy... not having strangers watching me, no wires connected to me and someone's hand up inside me checking me every so often. I was free to make noise, move as I wanted and focus inward without distraction.

As for the side affects to our bodies. I have carried and birthed 7 babies. I look great. (Not being stuck up.) I am trim, most people say, "YOU have SEVEN children." I eat good wholesome food and only drink water and milk, occasionally juice. NO soda, coffee or liquor.

My chi chi's are bigger during pregnancy and breastfeeding, then they shrink. My tummy is slightly flaccid, and I have stretch marks. But my husband loves me anyway. He says that he respects all these changes in my body because I am the mother of his children.

As far as postpartum depression, if you study childbirth you will learn that traumatic hospital birth and c-sections increase the chance of this. Yes, medical care, and c-sections are sometimes necessary and definitely can be life saving, but MOST of the time birth is uncomplicated if it is left to run its course. Unnecessary interference can lead to a domino effect of interventions.

Things like episiotomy are rarely necessary if a woman is able to move about during labor and not lying in a bed. Laying in bed with feet in stirrups works against birth/gravity and makes it harder for a baby to come out. This is why doctors do episiotomies (which is cutting the perineum to make the birth canal wider.)

In one of the comments left about your post one mujer said something about having your doctor put in a couple of stitches after birth to make you tighter. That's horrible!!!! Episiotomies are avoidable, stitches hurt, and they can increase chances of PPD.

With all of my births I have not had any pain med., no episiotomy, and no PPD. I have also nursed all of my children from between 15 months and 3 years (most weaned at 2 yrs.) Breastfeeding helps prevent PPD.

Little sister, start reading about birth. The time to study birth is not when you are pregnant, because you might be nauseas, tired and busy, therefore you may not have a lot of time. The time to begin studying is before you are even close to conceiving. Which means you are on the right track for asking these questions!

Also, find a good guy to marry. Not some fancy guy who wants to live the high life. A man who is loyal, who wants to work hard and raise a family. And finally, I would encourage you to not try to have your cake and eat it too. A career and motherhood robs your child of its mother and robs you of the best (albeit trying) time of your life.

Some days I get very little done around the house, (like projects, or cleaning, or quiet time) but for example... when I see my 3 year old dancing and tumbling around the living room, singing to herself, and just being HERSELF, my heart is flooded with thanks to be able to witness her joy and peace, knowing that if she were in daycare she would be waiting for mommy, longing to go home and she would not have that peace and inner tranquility.

I am leaving you some links to posts that I have on my blog, as well as some other articles that address some of your concerns.

http://spiritledbirth.blogspot.com/2008/05/wonderful-homebirth-that-made-me-cry.html

http://journeytohomebirth-hbac.blogspot.com/2008/08/wall-street-journal-article-on-birth.html

Enith Had Her Baby... At HOME!

2008-09-28T23:15:00.000-07:00

Yeah! Another Latina Mama, Enith Hernandez, gave birth at home last month. (In the US, women of Latin descent birthing at home is rare, so this is something for me to be excited about!)

Her baby boy, Robert Carlos was born Aug. 2008.

You may be wondering why do Latinas flock to the hospital? Here's some thoughts:

Latina women sometimes make the association that formula is more scientific, and thus more “American” and better than breast milk.. It is the same with hospital birth I am sure. Here's an interesting stat I found about breastfeeding on Vivirlatino that lends supports the statement cited above.

Mothers born in the United States had an 85% reduction in the odds of breastfeeding as compared to foreign-born mothers and a 66% reduction in the odds of breastfeeding at 6 months. Each additional year of US residency decreased the odds of breastfeeding by 4%. These differences by immigration status were seen for Mexicans, other Hispanics, and non-Hispanics.

Another reason that few Latinas give birth at home is financial: Midwife attended homebirth is expensive, between $2000-5000 out of pocket since insurance rarely covers it.

So yeah for Enith. I am so happy that she was able to birth her son at home, with a midwife, just like she wanted to!

The Reality of Birth Choices

2008-09-28T22:41:00.001-07:00

My friend Jenne, of Descent Into Motherhood, has announced that she is expecting. She wrote:

I have been preparing and planning for an unassisted birth since I realized how traumatized I was by my first child's birth. It was that trauma that also brought me to the awareness that medical attendants at a birth are not neccessary all of the time. When it came to unassisted birth, I think of it as something I'm going to do, but when not pregnant it's like saying someday I'll hike Mt. Everest.

The following is the comment that I left for her. This is what I would like to say to all expectant mothers:

I know how you feel about it not being "real." I can empathize. I also understand the "I have wanted a UC, now I am pregnant, do I really want a UC?!?!"

For me I truly have always wanted a UC, with every baby and I always will, but that doesn't take away the realities of birth, the fear, the possibilities. We all have to go through the wilderness, that trying time of searching for answers.

Remember that you should go with your feelings, not with what others would have you do, no matter which side of the fence they are coming from.

My children and I will keep you in our prayers. May you be blessed with the ability to focus, reach, have patience, know, grow, accept, release, be strong, conquer. May you birth in joy, peace, power, safety, and health.

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Let me clarify what I meant about wanting "a UC with all of my babies."

I am not referring to the first two, when I didn't even realize that I could birth out of the hospital. I mean with the last 5.

I DID end up having UC's, and my heart wanted a UC with each one, but each time there were periods when I was unsure and I had to wrestle with doubts.

I think this is natural and part of opposition in all things and also God's way of motivating us to do our best.

Birth Quilt

2008-09-28T15:18:00.000-07:00

"I am not afraid, I was born to do this."

This quilt is amazing and the story behind its creation is equally so. It is so touching that you must Read it! The woman who created it was motivated to do so after her first child was born by c-section. She went on to have a VBAC then a homebirth. An excerpt from the blog "Like it or Lump it."

My first birth experience led me to begin this quilt. I wanted to reflect on the power it takes for a woman to give birth and the incredible link we must have between own minds and our bodies at the time of birth. They must be working together through the whole process. The way I explored this concept in the quilt was through the use of vines which represent being rooted in ones self. I felt like the the vines growing up around the birthing mother signified her connection to the earth and the birth as an ancient ritual.

I also used the embroidered Joan of Arc quote "i am not afraid, I was born to do this" as a background element and it becomes the mantra of the quilt. It doesn't matter how many times one gives birth, there is always that element of shock and fear which must be overcome while your in the thick of it. It's that mind/ body connection.
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About the quilt:
It's a a whole piece quilt made from fabric which I hand-dyed and painted in greens, purples and pinks. Hand embroidered. Hand beaded. Hand and machine quilted. Handmade detachable purple cotton flowers and pink wool felt blossoms.

One more reason to breastfeed

2008-09-27T00:56:00.000-07:00

It was reported in USA Today that:

For the first time, a large, population-based study links a chemical in plastic baby bottles to heart disease and diabetes in humans.

Some scientists say the study — released today to coincide with a Food and Drug Administration meeting— shows that bisphenol A, or BPA, is too dangerous to allow in consumer products, especially those used by babies and pregnant women.

the National Toxicology Program... expressed "some concern" that BPA alters behavior, the brain and prostate gland in children, both before and after birth.

BPA, used in everything from polycarbonate plastic bottles to the linings of metal cans, is one of the highest production-volume chemicals in the world, with 2 million tons made every year and demand growing at up to 10% annually, according to the new paper. Scientists from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention have detected it in the urine of 93% of Americans tested.

Dr. Phil's Home Birth Horror Show

2008-09-26T22:44:00.000-07:00

Good 'ole Doc Phil is planning on exposing the horrors of home birth. Well, many of us home birth mamas who have experienced pleasurable home births and regrettable hospital births have sent the show our stories. Please do the same.

http://www.drphil.com/plugger/respond/?plugID=12524

I am the mother of 7 children. I have given birth to 5 of them at home, 4 were born unassisted, (that is without medical assistance.) My first two children were born in the hospital with CNM's. One of my home births was with a lay or direct entry midwife.

My hospital births were vaginal, drug-free births, yet they were painful, scary and imprivate. At home I was in control of my surroundings, my body and the labor process, whereas in the hospital I was a victim of birth, crying out in pain, with many observers and rules that I had to follow

My favorite part of my home births, in addition to being able to birth without overwhelming pain, was being able to hold my new, downy baby without interruption or interference. It brings tears to my eyes just thinking about the very first moments of my baby's life in my arms, nuzzling my breast.

I have no regrets about my unassisted births. I only regret that during my midwife assisted birth she insisted on breaking my bag when my son presented in the caul. But had that baby been born in the hospital many more interventions would have taken place, like vaginal exams and monitoring.

I am soo glad that I found out about home birth, which has been the traditional way of giving birth all through time except recently. I believe that every woman has the right to choose where and with whom she should give birth and as consumers, women should be the dictators of how and where we birth, not the medical system. Instead, the medical system should facilitate women giving birth where and with whom women feel safest and most comfortable whether that is in or out of the hospital.

To conduct a show with the intent to showcase "home birth horror stories" without allotting positive home birth stories equal air time is irresponsible, reprehensible, and bad journalism.